Please help, Muslims will probably only understand

You are like the one who can see but is blind, can hear but is deaf, and whose heart and mind can think but cannot comprehend - with all your senses and faculties you fumble about in the dark blindly calling on others to open their eyes whilst you refuse to open your own.

Enjoy these worldly pleasures because that's as good as it's going to get for you, as you would agree, but lament the day you will be held accountable for this.

So you're willing to give up your perfect man just because he doesn't believe the same fairytales you do? Is that seriously the reason you're going to give up on him, even though you're not close to your family?

A prime example of how toxic religion can be.

You didn't finish your sentence, but if those are things you do want, congrats, your worldview is logically consistent.

If those are things you don't want, then you are to a pious Muslim as a promiscuous non-Muslim is to you, and have simply changed your beliefs to be convenient to the extent that you get to still lord over those who do things you consider "fiithy" while still being a Muslim in name alone

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In Islam a women can't marry a guy who isn't Muslim,however she can marry a guy of a different race etc . This is because in Islam it's important to pass down religion through generations and that can be done by the father (I hope I make sense haha). and its what this girl wants in a man so I dont see the problem. I know it's not an easy situation to be in.

Sheikh Hameedi said words to a similar effect of this in the lecture I posted in ISOC, and I found it rather profound so it's stuck with me

And yet in Islam you're not allowed to date either, which she is doing and has said she will do in the future so she's being selective about what believes in. That then begs the question as to why she can't be selective about marrying the guy, even if he is non-Muslim. It seems like such a stupid decision to stop yourself from marrying someone who you feel is "the one" because of an ideology which you yourself don't even follow 100%.

And yet in Islam you're not allowed to date either, which she is doing and has said she will do in the future so she's being selective about what believes in. That then begs the question as to why she can't be selective about marrying the guy, even if he is non-Muslim. It seems like such a stupid decision to stop yourself from marrying someone who you feel is "the one" because of an ideology which you yourself don't even follow 100%.

Only a fool would have an 'all or nothing' attitude - if one were to burn their finger with a match because they felt like doing so for fun, only an absolute idiot would listen to a devil of a human being saying 'I don't see why you don't douse yourself in petrol and set your body alight because you enjoyed burning yourself with the match anyway'.

Similarly, one should not listen to a devil of a human being saying to compromise on every part of religion just because they compromise on other parts.

I don't think you can mark it on a scale. I want him to be fully practicing and be pious but telling me to wear the niqab and never leave the house and I can only leave the house with his permission etc.

Only a fool would have an 'all or nothing' attitude - if one were to burn their finger with a match because they felt like doing so for fun, only an absolute idiot would listen to a devil of a human being saying 'I don't see why you don't douse yourself in petrol and set your body alight because you enjoyed burning yourself with the match anyway'.

Similarly, one should not listen to a devil of a human being saying to compromise on every part of religion just because they compromise on other parts.

Wtf am I reading?

Are you really comparing leaving Islam with self-immolation?

Wtf am I reading?

Wtf am I reading?

What you are reading is back in the day men did not let a women leave the house for fear of jealousy and another man falling for his wife. Therefore to avoid unnecessary problems they merely suggested not forced upon their women.

In Islam a husband has rights over his wife. She should ask for his permission when leaving the house otherwise it is haraam.

You agree with that?

But I thought that marriage created a very strong bond between spouses? Normally men shouldn't fear that...