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Why can't girls be direct?

Why do they have to be indirect (or at least the ones who I like)?

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:rolleyes:
Reply 2
Original post by angelfox
Why do they have to be indirect (or at least the ones who I like)?




elaborate
Reply 3
Original post by ANM775
elaborate


they give out mixed signals, cannot work out whether they like me unless so obvious
Original post by angelfox
they give out mixed signals, cannot work out whether they like me unless so obvious


Are you direct with them? Have you asked them out on dates?
Reply 5
Original post by 999tigger
Are you direct with them? Have you asked them out on dates?


We've been out for food to a very formal restaurant but I never mentioned a date
Original post by angelfox
We've been out for food to a very formal restaurant but I never mentioned a date


So you arent direct, but you want girls to be? Will you be going on another outing? have you asked her?
Reply 7
Original post by angelfox
Why do they have to be indirect (or at least the ones who I like)?


They might just not know what your intentions are, might feel a bit insecure too. Just be direct yourself, then expect the same
Reply 8
Original post by 999tigger
So you arent direct, but you want girls to be? Will you be going on another outing? have you asked her?


I was under the impression that it'd be obvious as I paid as well and yes I have asked and we got a takeaway together and watched tv together
Because being direct takes balls. And only men have balls.

It's the man's job to be direct :cool:
Reply 10
Original post by ChickenMadness
Because being direct takes balls. And only men have balls.

It's the man's job to be direct :cool:


I'm gonna take your advice fella
Reply 11
Because you're not being direct.
I'm direct but then I am very blunt.
Reply 13
Original post by Ella-keturah
I'm direct but then I am very blunt.


I'd prefer that tbh
Reply 14
They probs like you and may be scared of getting hurt. Like they may be protecting themselves some guys are not verg nice once they know you like em
Reply 15
Original post by Josyb
They probs like you and may be scared of getting hurt. Like they may be protecting themselves some guys are not verg nice once they know you like em


this sounds plausible i suppose
Reply 16
I'm direct, but atm I'm in a situation where I don't know whether to be direct or not because guys don't always like a girl who is direct
Original post by angelfox
Why do they have to be indirect (or at least the ones who I like)?


Because in my experience guys dislike being asked out directly; it challenges their masculinity or some other bs
Original post by ChickenMadness
Because being direct takes balls. And only men have balls.

It's the man's job to be direct :cool:

I like a girl with balls.
I'm direct. Why are guys indirect!?
Well, at least the guys I have liked...

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