****ing lost it today and possibly broke his mobile phone. Is my anger justified?

I'm judging you based on the information you gave me. I never once mentioned a condition, I said you had an abnormal temper which you certainly do. You're blinded if you honestly thought most people would take your side over his. Still, this doesn't speak volumes to you.

The phone being expensive or not isn't the point. If I smash a tacky ASDA mug at the wall behind him, am I not still being violent? Nah, it's just something cheap I threw therefore it doesn't matter. Damage is damage, violence is violence. Paint it with whatever brush but it is what it is.

Oh can you just stop trying to diagnose people over the internet, it never works. And nope, you are wrong, I genuinely wanted to know what people think. I suspected that a lot of people will take his side but, admittedly, did not really expect that most of them will. Who knows, maybe I'm really crazy? But I honestly think that repeatedly ignoring a person you supposedly 'love' is much worse than some property damage (bearing in mind that he doesn't consider his mobile phone as something expensive, it's like an inexpensive keychain to him, or something).

All of your posts have hit the nail on the head. OP doesn't seem to understand how juvenile and problematic his/ her reactions are. And refuses to seek any help or admit wrongdoing on their part, and instead attempts to pin the on someone else.

I'm judging you based on the information you gave me. I never once mentioned a condition, I said you had an abnormal temper which you certainly do. You're blinded if you honestly thought most people would take your side over his. Still, this doesn't speak volumes to you.

The phone being expensive or not isn't the point. If I smash a tacky ASDA mug at the wall behind him, am I not still being violent? Nah, it's just something cheap I threw therefore it doesn't matter. Damage is damage, violence is violence. Paint it with whatever brush but it is what it is.

Violent?
Nope, I'm not. Are you people robots? Seriously? Your loved one keeps ignoring you, for like 2 weeks, browsing *****y Facebook, instead of at least pretending to act like he cares, even for 10 stupid minutes, or openly telling you to **** off, and you do nothing? You calmly talk to him, AGAIN, knowing that it's not going to help because you've already tried it 10 times? Really? And you're saying that something's wrong with me?

If my 'loved one' ignored me for two weeks straight I would do the normal thing and leave. You live off his income, you damage his stuff and act like a child and still feel like it's justified because he has 'ignored' you. This relationship doesn't sound healthy regardless of whose fault it is.

Have you taken a moment to consider perhaps he's sick and tired of your childish behaviour, irrational outbursts and temper? That's probably why he has no time for you. Not because he doesn't love you but because he's sick and tired of you being that way.

Of course I have. Why do you think I even bothered trying to make today special for him? Because I wanted to show him that I'm still trying, and because I wanted to enjoy the rest of the weekend with him. I spent a lot of time looking up food porn pics, recipes and ****, then I spent ages in the kitchen, all for nothing, not even a thank you.

One action can't solve everything, especially when the issues are big as they are. I think he might prefer if you both left the house and did something together. Also if you really thought about how your outbursts have impacted the relationship, you would both be discussing this reasonable people this rather than cooking up a nice meal.

Of course one action can't solve anything. Still, baby steps are better than OH nothing, or at least that's what I thought. I guess not. Oh well, I don't care anymore either, he can do whatever he wants now.

If its not working out then just leave him ?

She won't, she's already openly admitted he's rich and is under the assumption that he will never leave her as living together makes this impossible, while at the same time openly declaring that she lives in the real world and most of us do not...

Lol he doesn't really have much choice, considering we live together.

It's natural to get angry sometimes. Unless you are a robot... If this is 'violent' for you... God, you're not going to survive in the real word.

You kinda insinuated it though...

Not going to continue arguing, the fact of the matter is;

You broke your other halfs phone in a fit of rage over something extremely trivial.
Didn't perceive this as wrong.
Then qq on these forums thinking the majority will take your side and sympathise with you.
We don't.
You then consider us ALL wrong and won't take anyones advice.

// Close thread probably a good idea right about now to avoid more embarrassment.