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MUSLIM GIRLS HOW MUCH WOULD ASK FOR UR MEHR? be honest!

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Reply 60
Original post by PrincessBO$$
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£50K MINIMUM or get the hell out :hand:


Boys nowadays can barely afford to pay for the date but ok :rofl:
Original post by Angry Bird
lmao depends on the girl I guess


I know it depends on the girl. This is why I made this thread :rolleyes:

Thank you for your valid input :h:
Original post by Angry Bird
what exactly is mehr? does it go to the family or the bride?


supposed to be a present from the husband to his bride but some greedy families take it for themselves
So long as he can pay my bills and give me an income I'm not really fussed about the mahr
Mahre fatimi -might as well get the reward of sunnah.
Reply 65
Lol cant believe girls actually think about all this. I think im an alien :/
Reply 66
Are you being serious?
Original post by h333
Lol cant believe girls actually think about all this. I think im an alien :/


Your not sister I have cousins that accepted 500 pound mehr they didn't care they just wanted to get married to the 1 they loved. You shouldn't make marriage difficult.
Inshallah you will find a guided one whom will strengthen ur Deen. :h:
Original post by h333
Are you being serious?


Yes. Why?
What is that?
Original post by ANM775
that sucks.

why does he have to pay anything lol

sounds a bit like men buying women.

what do feminists think about this? *cough @Nirvana1989-1994 cough*


She worded it wrong. That plus preconceived notions about Islam might make you think that men are buying women.

It's actually money that is paid TO the woman, for her personal use. It's similar to a dowry, but it's compulsory and has to be paid at the time of marriage. There's many reasons for it, but they should be pretty obvious.
Reply 71
Original post by PrincessBO$$
Your not sister I have cousins that accepted 500 pound mehr they didn't care they just wanted to get married to the 1 they loved. You shouldn't make marriage difficult.
Inshallah you will find a guided one whom will strengthen ur Deen. :h:


I see. That's so nice masha'Allah. Agree. Yeah whatever he can afford.

Lol JZK. I hope same for you insha'Allah.
So tell me you're joking about your mehr..or..you serious? :lol:



Is it actually a Sunnah? (Sorry for sounding stupid lol)
Original post by h333
I see. That's so nice masha'Allah. Agree. Yeah whatever he can afford.

Lol JZK. I hope same for you insha'Allah.
So tell me you're joking about your mehr..or..you serious? :lol:



Is it actually a Sunnah? (Sorry for sounding stupid lol)


As far as i know, yes. Not stupid to ask.
Reply 73
Oh wow. I didn't know about this actually. Jzk.
Original post by PrincessBO$$
Your not sister I have cousins that accepted 500 pound mehr they didn't care they just wanted to get married to the 1 they loved. You shouldn't make marriage difficult.
Inshallah you will find a guided one whom will strengthen ur Deen. :h:


£500?! My wife gonna be happy with me, maybe i'll give her a snickers bar if she lucky. Tbh she should be paying mahr to me coz she gonna be blessed having me as a husband. Same goes for all four of them.
Original post by h333
Lol cant believe girls actually think about all this. I think im an alien :/


You're not the only one here. :rofl: :five:
Original post by TheProphetsPath
£500?! My wife gonna be happy with me, maybe i'll give her a snickers bar if she lucky. Tbh she should be paying mahr to me coz she gonna be blessed having me as a husband. Same goes for all four of them.

Mate stop gassing yourself :rolleyes:
I expect £50K from you or gtfo :hand:
3 - 6 months of his annual salary is a good gift.



Original post by Nerry
Boys nowadays can barely afford to pay for the date but ok :rofl:


That's why you marry a career man who has actually got his life in order.
(edited 7 years ago)

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