This is an old friend of mine that I've never talked to for more than 5 years now, I deleted her contacted details because I came to her house 2 or 3 times and asked her to come to mine, but she never did. Also, It got to a point where she didn't even call me like she used to and me with my "pay as you go" budget would always call her. I don't know if it had to do with the fact that we grew up with more responsiblities(e.g.jobs) or she just didn't find me important anymore.
One time, when we went to the cinema with another girl, one of them because she couldn't see one particular movie, at the end we didn't see anything
and went home like nothing happened. Now me being the "nice guy" at the time, didn't complain about it and swallowed the frustration, even after what I paid to use the bus to go there,. This was like the only time we went out together, everything else as far as I was concerned was being organised/started by only me.
Although none of them are part of my life anymore, I just felt the need to bring this up because it's made me more hesistant in seeing a friendzone as a dating opportunity as far as my sexual needs are concerned.