Im a muslim girl but

I feel the same way but I think there is no point in dressing more modest if it just for the sake of pleasing your parents, by doing that you wont get any good deeds

But it wont be sincere and she wont do it wholeheartedly, and neither will she be doing it for God, it will just be to get her parents off her back and to stop the feelings of guilt

Hmm makes sense. I do have *some* modest clothing I like, but abaya is like too extreme for me (even though my parents would love that), i only wear it to like my grandparents' house. I should probably go shopping for at least relatively modest things? that way i'm not 100% disappointing

Hi is the reason deep down because you want to attract men? Are you a virgin? Do you get tempted?

I feel like I can stay away from alcohol, drugs, etc. but I can never wear modest clothing? I know what the quran etc says but like I just idc. I pray, fast, give charity etc. but I just CAN'T stay away from like tight clothes? I don't think a girl should be required to cover up bc it it is natural for people to look etc... my parents & I have v conflicting opinions about this, so I usually change clothes when I leave the house :\
opinions?
no hate

A large part of dressing in such a way is to appear appealing to men... It's a slippery slope, first it's tight clothing, then it's tops that show cleavage, then miniskirts then who knows what next...

We're human of course we have temptations.

A large part of dressing in such a way is to appear appealing to men... It's a slippery slope, first it's tight clothing, then it's tops that show cleavage, then miniskirts then who knows what next...

We're human of course we have temptations.

Do what you feel is right, at the end of the day your an adult and if you feel that you want to wear tight clothes etc do it

lol same I tried wearing abaya for a few weeks I didn't really like it plus I kept tripping over lmao


I don't do drugs or alcohol either but I find it hard to not wear fitted clothing despite being a hijabi. I think it's just expressing yourself tbh and I like aesthetics etc.

I think although allah doesn't like it, well, everyone sins. I know people that dress "modestly" and have given random guys BJ's etc like how you dress doesn't show imaan. People seem to think I'm less innocent just because of the way I dress when in fact on multiple occassions I've found it to be the other way around.

I still cover myself and have decided to save myself for my husband despite that second part being extremely difficult. What I lack in "modest clothing" I feel I make up for in will power. As long as your close to Allah and realise you're doing something "wrong", it's okay, everyone sins.

Lol I had a cousin like you who used to wear what you wear, and thought hijab was too extreme, but MashaAllah she now wears abaya and hijab better than me.
Yeah you should. Have a look at websites like inayah and khaadi (if you're Asian) they have nice stuff.

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Do what you want with your life (at least from 18). What you wear is your business, as is what you believe (unless you try to tell other people what to do).

I feel the same way but I think there is no point in dressing more modest if it just for the sake of pleasing your parents, by doing that you wont get any good deeds and neither will you be happy about/like what you're wearing. Maybe try to meet your parents half way for now as it will cause more tension between you and your parents for now and in the future if you decide to dress more modest you can try that out too or you can continue wearing what you like as you would have moved out by then and your parents wont be able to control what you wear. But whatever you decide should be to please God and not your parents because that is a lose lose really, and also you dont have to be on either end of the spectrum, maybe wear clothes that are somewhere in the middle. I know exactly what you mean as I enjoy wearing tight clothes too but feel guilty afterwards - more of the sin rather than not listening to my parents tbh