Ok so, I started talking to this guy in august last year and we was speaking for a few weeks before we met . We finally met and we went to his house ( he had given me his onesie because I said I loved it ) first day we met and he tries to **** me,i stopped him and told him no etc. I seen him the day after and we went to his and yet again tries to **** me,I tell him no again and he isn't happy,he took me home and text me saying ' this isn't working' I knew it was because I hadn't ****ed him but he said he wasn't ready for a relationship. ( being in mind he's 19 and ****ed 21 girls and had one relationship lasting 2 months) so we stopped talking and about 2 weeks after he came back and said he wanted to try again with me so he took me on a date and it was amazing we both had butterflies and it felt amazing between us it was so good!!! I'm a sensitive girl and I tend to fall for people quickly,we had a few arguments over stupid petty things and I hadn't seen him for a while ( bad move of mine ) because that made us grow apart. I've had a small problem with trusting him so I had been stopping myself from getting close with him so I'd always cancel on him,which was again another bad move. It had gotten to 4 months of us speaking and we still hadn't had sex so he hated that ,he always told me ' I want to be in a relationship with you but I can't until we have sex ' which I understand. I had been too afraid to die to an ovary problem I have which I didn't tell him until later on. He accepted it and said when you're fine then we will. We had an argument on his birthday and I said I was done with him and on that night he went and shagged some girl and apparently had been seeing her for a few days behind my back. I forgived him and wanted to try again with him. For Christmas he got me a little gift. We kept arguing because we didn't have a close bond,and we was frustrated because of the sex part of the relationship. Anyway, I went over to his last week and we finally had sex he also said to me ' I love you' and we was so good on that day so so good!!! I spoke to him the day after,then his replies got blunt and slow so I confronted him and he basically said 'were not working' and that ' he is losing that feeling he had at first ' ....... if he felt that way why didn't he tell me before we had sex that he feels like this? Have I been used or does he genuinely like me? He's told his Family and friends about me, but I just feel used for the sex but I'm confused, help😩😫