Want gay sex but want a girlfriend? Does this make me bi or gay?

I know it isn't anything wrong with it but I just don't think I'm mentally prepared to continue that type of relationship with him.

I have never had sex with a woman so Im not sure if it has to do with inexperience or not. I had sex with a guy once where well I remember it . when I was a kid I did it but I dont remember it. Anyhow I'm 18 I've only had sex with one guy once anal sex and I clearly liked it. I was the bottom and a big issue I've had with is I climaxed when he climaxed inside of me. I want to do it again. I sometimes feel like I need dick. But then I want a girlfriend. I want a relationship. And I can't be in a relationship with this guy the guy I did it with because he has a girlfriend and I dont want a relationship with a guy I want a girlfriend. I generally think women are pretty and I dont want to make out with a guy. I have been talking to a girl that I asked out and we're set to be having our first date this weekend. I look forward to it. We've been talking nonstop for two weeks straight. She knows about the guy I had sex with she's bisexual herself. She kind of actually found it hot... But I worry about if this were to get more serious if I need dick how can I get to that point to have sex with a woman. I always have thresome fantasies with a guy and a girl and I like straight porn but not lesbian or gay porn. If I had to I would watch gay porn over lesbian porn. But I prefer ffm over mmf at the same time. I find male and female bodies attractive if I see either nude. I also think vaginas look different. But I don't really want to suck dick well at least large ones for obvious reasons. I would also rather a blow job over intercourse with a woman. I currently just though really want to be ****ed by my friend again and again and again and again etc.... But then there are issues with it. I have that I need to cope with. With the morality of the situation like I think I struggle with it because when I was a kid I did it with my cousin and my parents found out and I had a lot of issues with my parents. The kind of came back. But I still want to go out with this girl. And I want to see where this end up relationshipwise. But not sure how things will go sexually. Advice am I gay or bisexual?

Hey The main thing to do is take your time and see what works for you. You're young and uncertain, which is okay and perfectly normal - you don't need to know exactly what you want in decades to come yet!

Some people, and this could be the case with you, have different romantic and sexual orientations. It's more commonly discussed with asexual people (so someone might have no interest in sexual activity, but desire romantic attraction with women) - but it's entirely possible with sexual people as well, so you could be bisexual but more interested in women romantically or as life partners. For now, by far the best thing to do is not overthink it, go with what feels right and enjoyable and take it from there! Not everyone ends up fitting into neat boxes.

. Advice am I gay or bisexual?

People of loot

If I were in your shoes I'd pursue this bi girl in the hopes of having a threesome, that way you can get your dick when you need it and some tang on the side.

I don't think he asked the opinion of an irrational bigot
Please gtfo of here

You are bisexual. Not difficult to figure out, really.

Does the label really matter though?
Is that the actual point of your thread ?
I find your story kind of fascinating

People of loot

Pretty sure its not spelled like that.. Js.

I have never had sex with a woman so Im not sure if it has to do with inexperience or not. I had sex with a guy once where well I remember it . when I was a kid I did it but I dont remember it. Anyhow I'm 18 I've only had sex with one guy once anal sex and I clearly liked it. I was the bottom and a big issue I've had with is I climaxed when he climaxed inside of me. I want to do it again. I sometimes feel like I need dick. But then I want a girlfriend. I want a relationship. And I can't be in a relationship with this guy the guy I did it with because he has a girlfriend and I dont want a relationship with a guy I want a girlfriend. I generally think women are pretty and I dont want to make out with a guy. I have been talking to a girl that I asked out and we're set to be having our first date this weekend. I look forward to it. We've been talking nonstop for two weeks straight. She knows about the guy I had sex with she's bisexual herself. She kind of actually found it hot... But I worry about if this were to get more serious if I need dick how can I get to that point to have sex with a woman. I always have thresome fantasies with a guy and a girl and I like straight porn but not lesbian or gay porn. If I had to I would watch gay porn over lesbian porn. But I prefer ffm over mmf at the same time. I find male and female bodies attractive if I see either nude. I also think vaginas look different. But I don't really want to suck dick well at least large ones for obvious reasons. I would also rather a blow job over intercourse with a woman. I currently just though really want to be ****ed by my friend again and again and again and again etc.... But then there are issues with it. I have that I need to cope with. With the morality of the situation like I think I struggle with it because when I was a kid I did it with my cousin and my parents found out and I had a lot of issues with my parents. The kind of came back. But I still want to go out with this girl. And I want to see where this end up relationshipwise. But not sure how things will go sexually. Advice am I gay or bisexual?

Well it matters considering I want a girlfriend you know.

Ah man sorry. What I meant to say was sodomy
Silly me!