TL;DR: Main points in bold though.
I've been looking for a graduate job for about two years now. I've had plenty of internships, I'm currently in a little P/T thing, but I still
never get any callbacks for interviews, despite being told that my skills and CV are basically perfect for every job I apply for
(eg. "Your skills are very well suited to the role, but the volume of applications meant that we couldn't include you on our short list, but please try again soon."A couple of years ago I got an interview at a communications company via a recruitment agency, didn't get the job because they weren't sure if they wanted to create the role anymore,
but when the recruiter called back and told me all of this, he was giving me the whole spiel about not letting it knock my confidence and
was talking about my skills, then said;"You do speak very good English though."It really took me by surprise because
I am English. I was born and raised here, it is my native tongue, and
I gave him no reason to think that I couldn't speak English.The only thing that could have suggested it is my name.My name is an Arabic/Islamic/Muslim name even though I don't fall into any of those categories, and people often give me all these questions like "Where does it come from?", "how do you pronounce it?", "Do you make everyone call you that or do you shorten it?"
And
since then it's kind of been stuck in my head that maybe I'm not getting these interviews because they're basing my name on stereotypes of Asian women who have strong accents and may not have a complete grasp of the English Language - I don't mean that to offend anyone with that of course - and they probably think I got someone to write my resumé for me.
Has anyone else been in that kind of a situation before? I've been thinking about using my more Western sounding middle name, but I just think it'll confuse people when they're asking employers for references because I've also recently changed my last name, and also I will feel like I'm betraying my mother who gave me such a gorgeous name.