I always thought going on a date/dating someone WAS the initial 'getting to know someone i MIGHT be interested' phase before anything like relationships/boyfriend/girlfriend whatever took place, words are complicated :P
That's the whole point of dating. You're both "testing the water" to see whether you like each other from your initial interest!!!! If you don't like each other then you stop dating and move on. What is all the fuss about seriously? By the sounds of things you don't even have any initial interest in him so just don't even bother dating, just call it off so there isn't any wasted effort!
We are interested in each other he if just more interested in me than I am in him!
WE GET IT!! We know you're just friends! We're telling you the whole reason of dating is to test whether you're compatible/attracted/interested in each other to progress to an actual relationship.
We are interested in each other he if just more interested in me than I am in him!
Seriously, if you're not even that interested in him just tell him and move on. No point wasting his time, your time, and people on TSR's time. You're just going round in circles, just make up you're own mind and/or stop being too picky of what you expect as your ideal guy.
If that's the case, then go out for a drink with him, see how you actually feel about him.
Did that. I spend pretty much the entire weekend with him...
He said he understands my reasons for saying no and he gets the fact that I want to get to know him a bit more. But he doesn't like the fact that I am still getting over someone...
Did that. I spend pretty much the entire weekend with him...
He said he understands my reasons for saying no and he gets the fact that I want to get to know him a bit more. But he doesn't like the fact that I am still getting over someone...
Now he's creating his own problems. You've done your bit.
Now he's creating his own problems. You've done your bit.
Well that is what I told him. That it was one of the reasons for saying no. Because I don't want to play him but apparently I was being selfish and immature...
Well that is what I told him. That it was one of the reasons for saying no. Because I don't want to play him but apparently I was being selfish and immature...
He sounds like he's being petulant. He's not getting what he wants, so he's putting you down.