Am I gay?

Hello, I am 16 and I really need some advice. I never had the courage to talk to anyone about this irl(other than my best friend), although I think most my friends already consider me gay(which upsets me because I'm straight).

So basically I have had 2 relationships so far with girls in my school(nothing serious though, longest was for 3 weeks) and I can't say I felt happy really. One of those girls wanted to have sex and we were about to do it but after I saw her vagina I felt like throwing up. I felt scared because it looked like some shark's teeth so I couldn't do it. Soon after this incident we broke up. I am attracted to girls though but after this I was so confused. I told my best friend about it and he said he feels the same about vaginas and that is nothing wrong with me. However, idk what was going on in my head after he said this we both went quiet and I sort went to nervously kiss him, but the weird thing is he didn't push me away. One thing led to another and we ended having oral sex. We didn't have any other type of sex, and after we finished it felt kind of awkward. My friend said he is not gay afterwards and said he has to go. Idk why I have done what I did, during the momemnt it felt so good but afterwards I was convinced I am not gay. It's been 4 days, we haven't spoken since. I need some help, what should I tell my best friend now next time we speak? Does he hate me? Also, am I actually gay despite not being attracted to guys?

You are whatever you feel you are. Don't let others put labels on you.

Yes, your gay.



I label myself as gay, 100% of people I know label.

Hello, I am 16 and I really need some advice. I never had the courage to talk to anyone about this irl(other than my best friend), although I think most my friends already consider me gay(which upsets me because I'm straight).

So basically I have had 2 relationships so far with girls in my school(nothing serious though, longest was for 3 weeks) and I can't say I felt happy really. One of those girls wanted to have sex and we were about to do it but after I saw her vagina I felt like throwing up. I felt scared because it looked like some shark's teeth so I couldn't do it. Soon after this incident we broke up. I am attracted to girls though but after this I was so confused. I told my best friend about it and he said he feels the same about vaginas and that is nothing wrong with me. However, idk what was going on in my head after he said this we both went quiet and I sort went to nervously kiss him, but the weird thing is he didn't push me away. One thing led to another and we ended having oral sex. We didn't have any other type of sex, and after we finished it felt kind of awkward. My friend said he is not gay afterwards and said he has to go. Idk why I have done what I did, during the momemnt it felt so good but afterwards I was convinced I am not gay. It's been 4 days, we haven't spoken since. I need some help, what should I tell my best friend now next time we speak? Does he hate me? Also, am I actually gay despite not being attracted to guys?

Hello, I am 16 and I really need some advice. I never had the courage to talk to anyone about this irl(other than my best friend), although I think most my friends already consider me gay(which upsets me because I'm straight).

So basically I have had 2 relationships so far with girls in my school(nothing serious though, longest was for 3 weeks) and I can't say I felt happy really. One of those girls wanted to have sex and we were about to do it but after I saw her vagina I felt like throwing up. I felt scared because it looked like some shark's teeth so I couldn't do it. Soon after this incident we broke up. I am attracted to girls though but after this I was so confused. I told my best friend about it and he said he feels the same about vaginas and that is nothing wrong with me. However, idk what was going on in my head after he said this we both went quiet and I sort went to nervously kiss him, but the weird thing is he didn't push me away. One thing led to another and we ended having oral sex. We didn't have any other type of sex, and after we finished it felt kind of awkward. My friend said he is not gay afterwards and said he has to go. Idk why I have done what I did, during the momemnt it felt so good but afterwards I was convinced I am not gay. It's been 4 days, we haven't spoken since. I need some help, what should I tell my best friend now next time we speak? Does he hate me? Also, am I actually gay despite not being attracted to guys?

Hello, I am 16 and I really need some advice. I never had the courage to talk to anyone about this irl(other than my best friend), although I think most my friends already consider me gay(which upsets me because I'm straight).

So basically I have had 2 relationships so far with girls in my school(nothing serious though, longest was for 3 weeks) and I can't say I felt happy really. One of those girls wanted to have sex and we were about to do it but after I saw her vagina I felt like throwing up. I felt scared because it looked like some shark's teeth so I couldn't do it. Soon after this incident we broke up. I am attracted to girls though but after this I was so confused. I told my best friend about it and he said he feels the same about vaginas and that is nothing wrong with me. However, idk what was going on in my head after he said this we both went quiet and I sort went to nervously kiss him, but the weird thing is he didn't push me away. One thing led to another and we ended having oral sex. We didn't have any other type of sex, and after we finished it felt kind of awkward. My friend said he is not gay afterwards and said he has to go. Idk why I have done what I did, during the momemnt it felt so good but afterwards I was convinced I am not gay. It's been 4 days, we haven't spoken since. I need some help, what should I tell my best friend now next time we speak? Does he hate me? Also, am I actually gay despite not being attracted to guys?

Thing is I hate being called gay, because I am straight. It's weird though because I feel attracted to women but I think I find penises appealing. Not attracted to males though, but after I gave my best friend a bj I realised I kind of enjoyed it and I feel very guilty

wtf lmao you're totally bi


and have you had oral sex with a girl? I'm 2000% straighy but vaginas still make me feel...icky....


as far as I can tell you like oral sex, you just happened to have it with a guy first


the fact that both a girl and guy can turn you on is bi tho


at least i think, idk



lmao how do u even initiate oral with a straight male friend xDDDD

Who do you like? Girls or guys?

Which one would you like to have sex with?

Thing is I hate being called gay, because I am straight. It's weird though because I feel attracted to women but I think I find penises appealing. Not attracted to males though, but after I gave my best friend a bj I realised I kind of enjoyed it and I feel very guilty

wtf lmao you're totally bi


and have you had oral sex with a girl? I'm 2000% straight but looking at vaginas still make me feel...icky....


as far as I can tell you like oral sex, you just happened to have it with a guy first


the fact that both a girl and guy can turn you on is bi tho


at least i think, idk



lmao how do u even initiate oral with a straight male friend xDDDD

You might be gay. You might be bi. You might be homosexual but heteroromantic (relationships with girls, sex with guys). Or you might be straight.

There could be any number of reasons why you'd feel sick on seeing a vagina for the first time, being gay is only one of them. If you were gay, you'd've been more likely to feel nothing than anything else. Could be anything, even nerves - that's happened to me.

If you want to work out what you are, think about what turns you on. Do you normally prefer to think about men or women, or both?

I like girls. But now after my experience I'd definetly suck a dick from time to time. But no sex, I'll have that just with girls(hopefully if I overcome my fear of vaginas)

I like girls. But now after my experience I'd definetly suck a dick from time to time. But no sex, I'll have that just with girls(hopefully if I overcome my fear of vaginas)

'Shark's teeth.' Well, sexuality is a very complicated thing to determine. Straight people have had gay sex before so you can't call yourself gay based on that. From my experience, I knew I was bisexual when I consistently kept feeling attraction to women. Have you felt attraction to dudes before?