What's a normal amount of time to last in bed?

There isn't really a normal amount. I think the average is about 20-30 minutes, but I'm not sure. It all depends on you and your partner and what you like and want to do. 5 minutes is perfectly normal, but then so is several hours if that is your thing.

Yes, once you and your partner finish, there is a refractory period where it takes a while until your nerves can be stimulated again. That's perfectly normal and can last minutes to hours, depending on the person.

Don't worry too much about how long you last. But if you want to kill 2 birds with 1 stone, use condoms that have a numbing lube in them. That will reduce the sensitivity of your nerves and help you last longer. Have fun!

'Normal' doesn't mean anything but I would say about 10-15min. More than that it gets boring imo

There's really no specific number. Keep in mind that when people say how long the sex lasts, it usually includes foreplay and things like that. The actual penetration part of sex lasts like 5min average or something along those lines.

All advice I can give you is just take your time with foreplay and if you want to last longer, if you feel close, just slow down for a bit, maybe change up the positions give yourself a moment to calm down.

As long as you both want it to. This is one thing where what other people do really has no relevance.

It's quite possible that you won't ejaculate the first time you have partner sex. The physical sensations of vaginal and oral sex are distinctly different to those of masturbation, especially if you use a 'hard and fast' hand action or masturbate by rubbing against something.

Condoms are pretty easy, durex mutual climax has numbing lube inside and ribbed outside to give the girl more pleasure. Ribbed also usually means a bit thicker.

I would also say don't worry too much about finishing too quick. Remember that she's not just there for your pleasure and once you're done, try to help her out with your hands. Don't feel scared to ask her to show you what she likes, it might be a bit awkward at first but it's the best way to learn.

Also, statistics are pretty high for women who never had orgasms even after years of having sex so not everyone​ can manage that. Only minority can actually finish just purely from penetration and even less can do so from playing with their breasts. Most will require clitoris stimulation.

But yeah, if people say they usually have sex for like 2 hours. They probably means some foreplay, round of actual sex, then probably some cuddling or soft foreplay for a bit until they're recovered, then actual sex again and so on. Recovery speed varies by guy tho, some can go again in like 5 minutes, others may need 30.

A chemist sells them, so do supermarkets. Or if you want to be discreet then Amazon do.

Cheers mate. Reckon that's saved me some future embarrassment.

No problem, another thing I would recommend is just trying on a condom or two beforehand. Just so you're comfortable putting it on. Plus you'll be surprised by how many guys think they're average size when really they need to look into trying smaller or larger condoms.

You do not want a condom with numbing anything!

For a start, merely being rolled up means that what's on the inside gets on the outside, the bits touching your partner.

Secondly, if you want to penetrate someone without feeling anything, use a dildo. It's much easier.

If you have an issue with ejaculating sooner than you want - and you don't know that you do - then the basic cure is learning the signs of getting close, i.e. paying attention to what you're feeling, and doing something to reduce the stimulation. Using a numbing cream makes that harder.

durex mutual climax has numbing lube inside and ribbed outside to give the girl more pleasure.

This was the bit I was talking about. If it is lubricated on the inside with an anesthetic, it will be on the outside too. Try rolling up a sock: the inside of one bit ends up next to the outside of a bit further along...

(Oh, and ribs have no effect in real life - Durex were stopped from making claims otherwise because there's no evidence that they do.)

i've been thinking recently about how when i 1st start having sex, i'm probably not gonna last very long. And then i got thinking about how long is actually normal. 5, 10 minutes? Half hour, and hour? Or if you spend several hours having sex does that mean you go several times? Because according to what some people have told me, it takes a while after having sex before you can go again. I really have no idea.
And as a side question, tips on lasting longer than i inevitably otherwise will on my 1st time?

Cheers