fat friend turned skinny

I used to be fat and I was treated like a subhuman. Not that I knew at the time. I was always treated like none of my problems mattered and if I did say anything I was being an attention wh*re. Now that I am skinny, most of these people have turned on me, they left me out of things, they will purposely ignore my message and talk to people that (their words) "aren't that close with".

If I send a picture of what I'm going to be wearing (because they asked) then they'd make it out as if I'm showing off.

Oh I should mention, I have a pretty face and now I have a body to match, so I think my "friends" don't want to know me anymore.

Has this happened to anyone else?

I used to be fat and I was treated like a subhuman. Not that I knew at the time. I was always treated like none of my problems mattered and if I did say anything I was being an attention wh*re. Now that I am skinny, most of these people have turned on me, they left me out of things, they will purposely ignore my message and talk to people that (their words) "aren't that close with".

If I send a picture of what I'm going to be wearing (because they asked) then they'd make it out as if I'm showing off.

Oh I should mention, I have a pretty face and now I have a body to match, so I think my "friends" don't want to know me anymore.

Has this happened to anyone else?

Are you a girl? I find that girls get jealous of each other very easily especially when it involves physical attributes/attraction. Guys on the other hand don't really bother than much (not all of course). As I guy who used to be fat and unappreciated (who now is much fitter than average) I get a lot more respect from both men and women, it is unbelievable and feels so shallow but it has worked out for the better, so who am I to complain?

I say, move away from them and move up if you get what I mean, basically make new friends on your level. Get yourself out with new people as much as you can.

Yes I am a girl, but I guess it hurts if you've known those people for quite long.

Is this normal- my brother got jealous of me for losing weight...

I used to be fat and I was treated like a subhuman. Not that I knew at the time. I was always treated like none of my problems mattered and if I did say anything I was being an attention wh*re. Now that I am skinny, most of these people have turned on me, they left me out of things, they will purposely ignore my message and talk to people that (their words) "aren't that close with".

If I send a picture of what I'm going to be wearing (because they asked) then they'd make it out as if I'm showing off.

Oh I should mention, I have a pretty face and now I have a body to match, so I think my "friends" don't want to know me anymore.

Has this happened to anyone else?

since year 7 my friendship group has consisted of about 20 girls and in year 7-11 one of our friends in the group was the 'fat friend', she's lost a lot of weight recently like i reckon she's gone from a size 16 to a size 10 in a year, she's still losing weight and i think in time she might be a size 6-8 like the rest of us, I'm so happy for her but A LOT of my friends aren't. Everyone has been kinda cold with her recently, and at a party the other night she was drunk and upset and told one of the girls that we were all being mean to her for no reason, I personally haven't done anything wrong and have remained neutral but ik a lot of my friends are probably jealous of her transformation, I've noticed one friend in particular trying to sabotage her diet, the girl is kinda clueless so I stepped in and told my friend to stop ruining her diet and progress, but i mean I can only see this going one way and that is that the girl will be kicked out of the group.

Ur group sounds more like a clique, was she only in it so the rest of u could feel prettier ?
Interesting how u never once call the fat girl ur friend but always call the bullies ur friends
Why don't u stand up for her ?

I used to be fat and I was treated like a subhuman. Not that I knew at the time. I was always treated like none of my problems mattered and if I did say anything I was being an attention wh*re. Now that I am skinny, most of these people have turned on me, they left me out of things, they will purposely ignore my message and talk to people that (their words) "aren't that close with".

If I send a picture of what I'm going to be wearing (because they asked) then they'd make it out as if I'm showing off.

Oh I should mention, I have a pretty face and now I have a body to match, so I think my "friends" don't want to know me anymore.

Has this happened to anyone else?

Are you a girl? I find that girls get jealous of each other very easily especially when it involves physical attributes/attraction. Guys on the other hand don't really bother than much (not all of course). As I guy who used to be fat and unappreciated (who now is much fitter than average) I get a lot more respect from both men and women, it is unbelievable and feels so shallow but it has worked out for the better, so who am I to complain?

I say, move away from them and move up if you get what I mean, basically make new friends on your level. Get yourself out with new people as much as you can.