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Original post by That'sGreat
Thick ass skull? Which one of us sent the nudes again?

Are your parents also spiritual or do they follow a religion? I never once said you can't be guilty because you did something you're not ok with, don't attempt at making things up - but considering its society that creates these ideas that you should feel guilty, which stems from Christian beliefs - we can clearly see I was right.



Lmao.
Original post by beckymclaughlin
Nothing wrong with sending nudes as long as you're single and the person you're sending to is single. simples. You don't have to feel guilty, you decide what you wanna do with your own body, not anyone else,

Unless you're religious, I don't know anything about that though. I'm not.


Sigh. Ty. I'm not religious I just feel as though It's wrong period.
PRSOM!!!!!
Original post by That'sGreat
Thick ass skull? Which one of us sent the nudes again?

Are your parents also spiritual or do they follow a religion? I never once said you can't be guilty because you did something you're not ok with, don't attempt at making things up - but considering its society that creates these ideas that you should feel guilty, which stems from Christian beliefs - we can clearly see I was right.


m8 stop being a d*ck, she's feeling vulnerable, let her be.
Original post by That'sGreat
Ladies and gentlemen, another reason why religion is pointless in today's society


Love me a bit of Nige
Learn from your mistake and never be tempted to repeat it, even in a committed relationship. You don't need to decide now whether you tell a future partner about it, leave that decision until the time is right. Try to put it behind you, it is the past, try to focus on here and now. Every time thoughts about it pop into your head, tell yourself it was in the past and that's where it's staying. Move past it and enjoy what you are doing now. All the best x
You have repented, stated you will not do this again, and quite correctly not discussed it with family or other friends. Try to focus now on other things.
Original post by basicallyshrek
m8 stop being a d*ck, she's feeling vulnerable, let her be.


Telling her the truth isn't being a ****, if she can't handle it she shouldn't throw insults
Original post by That'sGreat
Telling her the truth isn't being a ****, if she can't handle it she shouldn't throw insults



So harassing me because I'm not an atheist is truth? You are a legit psychopath oml. None of my OP was about my religion. None of my feelings is about my "religion". You don't have a thick skull for having nudes. If you want to talk about christianity and how you hate it so much then be my guest but take it somewhere else because your antireligous rants have nothing to do with the original post aside from the fact thay i said I prayed. WHICH SHOULDN'T BE A PROBLEM .I'M NOT FORCING ANYONE TO BELIEVE IN GOD. JUST FREAKING STOP BEING A CRAZY WITH NO CONTEXT.
You shouldn't feel bad. Most people have sent them. I don't see nudity as a big deal anyway.
Original post by Anonymous
So harassing me because I'm not an atheist is truth? You are a legit psychopath oml. None of my OP was about my religion. None of my feelings is about my "religion". You don't have a thick skull for having nudes. If you want to talk about christianity and how you hate it so much then be my guest but take it somewhere else because your antireligous rants have nothing to do with the original post aside from the fact thay i said I prayed. WHICH SHOULDN'T BE A PROBLEM .I'M NOT FORCING ANYONE TO BELIEVE IN GOD. JUST FREAKING STOP BEING A CRAZY WITH NO CONTEXT.


I'm not harassing you, I'm explaining the likely reason why you feel guilt. You don't need to be religious to experience the guilt caused by brainwashing of Christianity, Islam or just today's society. If you can't simply accept reasoning for your guilt then I think you need to get your brain checked. My comment is about how much I hate religion or Christianity, it's why you feel guilty. If you sincerely believe that your guilt is implanted into your head the second you are born - you need a reality check. The reason for your guilt is society telling you to be guilty, maybe spend a bit more time thinking and a bit less TYPING IN ALL CAPS. So, they have everything to do with your post, and it's quite funny that you still can't see the point I'm making - and solely focus your response on me mentioning Christianity. So, maybe, you should use some context when reading, as usually looking at one word out of a whole sentence doesn't tell you what the sentence is about.

Your point about forcing people to believe in God is invalid. Take a breath, chill out, and read my comments again - hopefully you'll be able to comprehend the relatively straightforward points I've made. And for the love of a God, don't use all caps - it's make you look like a lunatic.
1000s of people send them every night. what makes yours such a big deal? i sent some yesterday. who cares. i have bigger problems.
Original post by Anonymous
sending nudes is honestly no big deal... dudes watch porn all the time, they've probably seen hundreds of naked women. there's nothing wrong with showing a guy you naked, especially since he couldn't even see your face in the picture. i think you're overreacting, people always like to make a big deal out of sending sexual pictures online by telling you it's bad, but once you start to realise this is literally so common, you'll understand there's not even anything wrong with what you've done. because really, what actually is bad about a guy seeing your boobs? it's only because society has sexualised women so badly and then shames them for literally anything. guys don't feel bad when they send **** pics, don't feel bad you sent someone a nude. don't do it again if you're not comfortable with it, but a lot of girls find taking nudes and thirst traps fun and that's only because they've realised there's nothing wrong with a girl doing the same things a dude can do and get away with. also, there's nothing wrong with being sexual. i promise you this will have literally no effect on any future relationships. you'll be fine :smile:


This was LITERALLY the ONLY helpful comment XD
In the grand scheme of life, this is insignificant.

Move on dear and work from it - everything is a lesson.

Your face wasn't in it. So unless you have something like a distinctive tattoo, you can deny it if it does arise. :smile:
just don't send them again
Wait, how old are you OP?
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ANM775
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I'm sorry, but a girl you know sending you nude pics of herself is not something you just "forget" in a hurry ..like you forgot what you ate for dinner last Thursday..

him deleting the pics is debatable as well, I know plenty of guys who would secretly keep them and just tell the girl that they deleted them to keep her happy.

Any nude pictures you take, you should know that there is a possibility they might one day end up being circulated or showed to people without your permission. If a person can not deal with that possibility then they shouldn't take and distribute nude pics of themselves.
Original post by ANM775
I'm sorry, but a girl you know sending you nude pics of herself is not something you just "forget" in a hurry ..like you forgot what you ate for dinner last Thursday..

him deleting the pics is debatable as well, I know plenty of guys who would secretly keep them and just tell the girl that they deleted them to keep her happy.

Any nude pictures you take, you should know that there is a possibility they might one day end up being circulated or showed to people without your permission. If a person can not deal with that possibility then they shouldn't take and distribute nude pics of themselves.

Eventually... if another girl sends him pics that are wowzer :tongue:

Well that's a fault on his part. Ahh a girl should always ensure to keep ammunition then, you know as revenge if such was to occur :biggrin: obvs can just not take nudes
I wanted to say something which I'm not sure has been explicitly said by anyone else here:
Sending nudes is absolutely fine. There's NOTHING, and I do mean nothing wrong with sending nudes. If you wanna send 'em, it's your choice. And sending nudes doesn't make you a whore either, just like having lots of casual sex doesn't say anything about your character. As for future relationships, you mentioned at one point worrying that guys would want to be with a girl who hasn't exposed herself to other guys... That would imply that most guys would only date virgins which is absurd so there's no reason that sending nudes should affect future relationships. What this means is that you don't need to feel guilty for sending them and there's no reason to pledge never to do it again (from a moral standpoint i mean).
All that said, you should weigh up the following before sending any nudes: even though you may trust the guy, there's still always the possibility that he'll keep them or worse distribute them to mates or online. So you have to weigh up you trust in the guy, against everything else.
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Woah you just lightened up my spirit.. guess I in the same situation

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