Is it weird to prefer giving oral over getting it?

Not really. It is like saying I like punching people but perfer not to get punched. It is just your personal preference. But I guess you just need to be honest at the start.

You're a gem. I also have body insecurities so i probably would be the same, but i dont get men/gals so can't relate.

The question pretty much says it all. I'm a girl and I enjoy giving head but I think because of my insecurities over my body I don't enjoy reciving it that much.

Does anyone else feel the same way? And does anyone have any advice about how I could tell guys this?

Girl saaaame totally get u

I can't relate. I'm a girl, and I'm totally the opposite.

I'm personally the other way around, but no it's not weird. There are people with fetishes involving faeces - that's weird.

Luckly faeces is not really my thing...

Thank God! Based on what I've seen on the internet it's just a universally accepted fact that giving just feels like work and girls only do it just to get some back.

I'm a guy and I also prefer to give than receive. Not because of insecurities or anything like that and I do like getting head, but of all things sexual it's not my favourite. IF the girl is great at giving head then that changes everything, but IME most aren't. To me, getting a BJ isn't much "fun" - it's pleasurable, but it's a bit boring just sitting back doing nothing, so it's purely a pleasure thing for me, and in most cases I've found that I can "arrive" harder with my hand and a bit of lube than I have off of most BJs. So I mostly prefer to tug myself off than get a BJ from a pure pleasure perspective, and if I'm up for dirty fun then sex it is. Whereas, I do really enjoy going down. It's something for me to do, it's a turn-on seeing how the girl reacts to what I'm doing down there and it's a great way to ramp things up and basically get her excited to do things she might have been apprehensive about beforehand, whereas with a BJ it's pretty much, the longer the BJ goes on, the shorter the sex will be.

You're a gem. I also have body insecurities so i probably would be the same, but i dont get men/gals so can't relate.

No way, if I'm really into the guy then ofc I want the moment to be all about him. Kinda like a feeling of achievement only not something that in societies eyes we should be proud of, despite still being ahaha

About the last bit though: when giving a bj, I sorta like to finish him off rather than go into sex after. Do guys prefer to finish with sex even if they get a bj?

Thank God! Based on what I've seen on the internet it's just a universally accepted fact that giving just feels like work and girls only do it just to get some back.



Any tips on how to get more comfortable with it because I feel really bad when the guy is down there and I just don't have the heart to tell him to stop.