Did I cheat?? ADVICE PLEASE

If you can guess how he will react, perhaps you are better off not mentioning it, especially if he will make a big deal about it and keep asking you questions. Try to focus on the problems causing the arguments rather than this issue.

My boyfriend also said why would you tell him anyways he probably just wanted sex off you. Little does he know we planned to meet but I didn't ! I cancelled and said maybe next week because I felt bad that I took out his time to listen to my problems. And my boyfriend was right !he started to flirt after 4 days. I said to him why do you keep complimenting me lol. And did say to him if your going to call me babe don't talk to me. Anyways moral of the story is I'm starting not to feel guilty because there is nothing to tell him I've told him I spoke to the guy just not told him how long. If he asks do I lie to avoid more allegations and suspicions of him?

Ok I just hope he doesn't bring it up.

In any relationship, each person has to trust each other. If he is jealous and fixated on this other guy, do you think he is in the right? You need to deal with the issues causing your arguments and break up. It may be something that you can't resolve, only time will tell. It is a little foolish of you to talk to the other guy when you knew he was flirting with you but you didn't do anything awful. You shouldn't lie but you shouldn't tell him the entire truth about it either. Just state that you talked to the guy, that is the end. If you are both serious about reconciling, try to solve your other problems first.

Yes I'm just scared if he asks how long did you speak or if we planned to meet. Also he asks do I have his number and I said 'no'. I did have it but deleted it and blocked.

I know! Sorry I'm just so stressed about it. Everyone's telling me not to tell him because there's nothing to tell but imagine he asks? What do I do. Have I cheated because in his head we wasn't over ? I told him the reason I deleted him was because out of respect for my boyfriend when he came back.

So me and my boyfriend got into a huge argument and broke up after about 4/5 days he came back and we're resolving it currently.
I thought it was over he try to say to me In his head it wasn't he just needed time away and said we was ( childish).

This guy I use to speak to before my boyfriend him and I use to speak deeply about his ex girlfriend and he wanted advice ect and help on his relationship with her. I stopped talking to him when I got with my boyfriend.

The day me and my boyfriend broke up I messaged him and called him and said what happened with me and my boyfriend I was crying all day about it. After we got off the phone we spoke on messages for about 4days on and off about gym , my boyfriend. Ex at the time , summer ect.... he then started complimenting me and I avoided it because I didn't think much of it. He said to meet up to talk or grab something to eat I agreed but never was going to go I just cancelled, I felt bad for him giving me advice on my break up so I just agreed and told him I will but cancelled. He then started talking about my body and stuff because I said I've been loosing weight and want to go gym , he then said he wanted to feel and touch my body and that's when I completely went crazy at him on messages I then blocked him.

My boyfriend came back on that day in the night and we spoke ect, I told him I spoke to a guy about the relationship he was Abit angry but I didn't say why I stopped talking to and that we was planning to meet.

I feel sooooooo guilty my friends say there's nothing To feel guilty about because I didn't flirt or anything but I know how my boyfriend would take it he would go crazy and never trust me. The boy and him don't know eachother. Deep down inside I feel like telling him so I don't have this on my head but everyone telling me that there's nothing to tell. Because he said in his head it wasn't over made me feel so guilty and stuff. The fact that on the Same day I spoke to the guy made me feel guilty also.

Why? Please I feel very guilty it's been over my head for days now

So me and my boyfriend got into a huge argument and broke up after about 4/5 days he came back and we're resolving it currently.
I thought it was over he try to say to me In his head it wasn't he just needed time away and said we was ( childish).

This guy I use to speak to before my boyfriend him and I use to speak deeply about his ex girlfriend and he wanted advice ect and help on his relationship with her. I stopped talking to him when I got with my boyfriend.

The day me and my boyfriend broke up I messaged him and called him and said what happened with me and my boyfriend I was crying all day about it. After we got off the phone we spoke on messages for about 4days on and off about gym , my boyfriend. Ex at the time , summer ect.... he then started complimenting me and I avoided it because I didn't think much of it. He said to meet up to talk or grab something to eat I agreed but never was going to go I just cancelled, I felt bad for him giving me advice on my break up so I just agreed and told him I will but cancelled. He then started talking about my body and stuff because I said I've been loosing weight and want to go gym , he then said he wanted to feel and touch my body and that's when I completely went crazy at him on messages I then blocked him.

My boyfriend came back on that day in the night and we spoke ect, I told him I spoke to a guy about the relationship he was Abit angry but I didn't say why I stopped talking to and that we was planning to meet.

I feel sooooooo guilty my friends say there's nothing To feel guilty about because I didn't flirt or anything but I know how my boyfriend would take it he would go crazy and never trust me. The boy and him don't know eachother. Deep down inside I feel like telling him so I don't have this on my head but everyone telling me that there's nothing to tell. Because he said in his head it wasn't over made me feel so guilty and stuff. The fact that on the Same day I spoke to the guy made me feel guilty also.