I'm so mad at my parents

You sound like a spoiled brat, you're not entitled to anything from them.

I agree it's silly they aren't letting you get a job though.

When a cousin abroad asks for new things, he gets it the next week. But when I ask for something, it takes me about 3 weeks to finally to get an answer out of my parents mouth, and another 3 weeks to actually get it.

My parents are always so stingy, especially with me. When i ask for something, they always buy me the lowest quality things and if i ask for better things, they wont get it for me.

I had asked them for a new bike 4 months ago because it takes me so long to get to school by walking 30-40 minutes and only yesterday they agreed.

At the start of the year (year 12) I had asked my parents for a new notebook, as the school will not provide it any longer as i'm not in year 11. They bought one for 1 pound and when it ran out last week, they've been blaming me saying i'm wasting paper and haven't bothered to buy me decent books.

I know the usual replies, "they probably find it hard to pay" and etc. BUT How is that when my cousins family asks for 13 thousand pounds, my dad and mum can get a loan to get it to them, but when I ask for a new book, which is about 3 quid, they cant be bothered to ****ing do anything about it?

I get 6 pounds each week, and if i spend it on stationary, my parents complain. I cant work because "it would stop me from focusing in education" and this is stopping me from getting a good uni. Then presumably, when i dont get good work experience (i tried to work at a charity shop, which they didnt let me) and not get into a good uni, i'll be the one to blame.

When i spent my money last time on stationary, they got mad and told me to ask them if i wanted things to do with education. But it takes them about 3 weeks to even consider it. So far since my book ran out (for examplE) i've had to scavenge around for extra paper and ask my friends, which is pretty shameful.

I feel that they are being unjust.

So i'm spoiled for asking for new books to write in? I've never asked them for a phone in my entire life and only got it because my cousin gifted it to me. I've never asked for money personally. I'm not entitled to get anything from them, true. But at the same time, they aren't allowed to stop me from making money myself.

Can't you just steal exercise books from school. They usually have packs lying around, say in an english classroom. Go in, carefully at lunchtime or early in the morning when they are empty and no risk of a teacher coming in, and just take loads.

I've mentioned it so in the thread, they won't let me get a job. They keep interfering in everything i do. I even wanted to resume year 12 in my old school, but they forced to me to go to a grammar school and now i hate it here. No friends, no one to talk to. But if i mention this, "we are doing this for the best of you".

Ye sure, and when you die, it'll be me suffering.

This is indecent.
Steal money from your parents if you really need to, but don't follow this criminal advice.

lol, stealing money from parents is worse- it will effect them more.
100*cost of books/salary=x%
stealing from government:
100*cost of books/tax (billions)=y%

y<x, y is smaller than x by a magnitude of millions

"Stealing" money from his parents is simply taking what he is entitled to from the people who should voluntarily provide for him. Stealing from the state is criminal.

Would you steal from your parents?

No, because they provide for my basic needs and much much more.

In OP's condition, maybe. But I wouldn't steal from the state.

When a cousin abroad asks for new things, he gets it the next week. But when I ask for something, it takes me about 3 weeks to finally to get an answer out of my parents mouth, and another 3 weeks to actually get it.

My parents are always so stingy, especially with me. When i ask for something, they always buy me the lowest quality things and if i ask for better things, they wont get it for me.

I had asked them for a new bike 4 months ago because it takes me so long to get to school by walking 30-40 minutes and only yesterday they agreed.

At the start of the year (year 12) I had asked my parents for a new notebook, as the school will not provide it any longer as i'm not in year 11. They bought one for 1 pound and when it ran out last week, they've been blaming me saying i'm wasting paper and haven't bothered to buy me decent books.

I know the usual replies, "they probably find it hard to pay" and etc. BUT How is that when my cousins family asks for 13 thousand pounds, my dad and mum can get a loan to get it to them, but when I ask for a new book, which is about 3 quid, they cant be bothered to ****ing do anything about it?

I get 6 pounds each week, and if i spend it on stationary, my parents complain. I cant work because "it would stop me from focusing in education" and this is stopping me from getting a good uni. Then presumably, when i dont get good work experience (i tried to work at a charity shop, which they didnt let me) and not get into a good uni, i'll be the one to blame.

When i spent my money last time on stationary, they got mad and told me to ask them if i wanted things to do with education. But it takes them about 3 weeks to even consider it. So far since my book ran out (for examplE) i've had to scavenge around for extra paper and ask my friends, which is pretty shameful.

I feel that they are being unjust.

"Stealing" money from his parents is simply taking what he is entitled to from the people who should voluntarily provide for him. Stealing from the state is criminal.

Lol, I never got pocket money so £6 is actually pretty good. You can get a notebook/notepad for like a £1 and if they complain, let them complain. They can't be pissed that you spend your pocket money on something to help your education, especially as they seem focused on you having a good education. You can still work if you want to. I worked in college and I will be working throughout my degree; it's possible and people do it all the time.

Just ignore them. Get a cheap notepad and send out some CVs. That's what normal people do; your parents aren't behaving normally.

Also, bikes are super expensive so maybe your parents just don't have much money? My parents don't have much money (which is why I never got pocket money) so I didn't get everything I wanted.

What do you think your cousin does/is like that your parents seem to love so much? There's definitely favouritism there. You should bring it up to them if you can and ask them what they're doing.

oh ok my bad , aren't grammar school expensive though

what are u on about??
grammar schools are free just like any other schools, the only difference is they have an entrance exam which you have to pass to get a place in the school.

OP I can truly understand why your upset. You're definitely not acting entitled. You're just tired of the double standard.
Use that £6 to buy some cheap exercise books and look for a part time job. Not something too time consuming that it'll take time away from studies but just enough to cover your expenses.
Good luck and I hope your situation gets better.
Plus I was wondering. Have you ever directly asked your father about the double standards? If so what did he say?

You sound like a spoiled brat, you're not entitled to anything from them.

I agree it's silly they aren't letting you get a job though.