So... i have a crush :)

Original post by Avaia

Try to spend more time with him or around him, speak to his friends and find out what he likes...and who he likes :wink:

exactly what I hope to do! Although, he’s only in one of my classes and sits miles away and when we walk out together we walk for like a minute until we parts ways (he goes to his friends/lesson, I go to mine)

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Original post by Anonymous

(on a guy in college) what do i do??? Right now we’re acquaintances and I don’t know how he feels about me although I’m sure he doesn’t *like* me. Any tips?

Ask him for a date or go out for a meal? of course you can act in this simpler by confessing your love for your college guy. Sooner or later you have to do anyway... And as he is not a stranger for you, I see no problems to ask him for his feelings for you.

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Original post by Kallisto

Oh my God, I wish I had the confidence to do this!

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Avaia

Original post by Anonymous

Do you have homework assignments? If so ask him for help, if he is smarter than you then you could say that, or if he doesn't understand something you could offer to help. Just find ways that you can start talking to him more or spending a bit more time with him :smile:

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Jigsaws mum

You HAD to make a thread on this?

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Original post by Anonymous

Oh my God, I wish I had the confidence to do this!

Without confidence, you will never become a couple with him. You two can't be a pair when the guy does not know that you love him. You are afraid to get the push, am I right?

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Original post by Kallisto

Without confidence, you will never become a couple with him. You two can't be a pair when the guy does not know that you love him. You are afraid to get the push, am I right?

I’m just so nervous! You’re totally right though. I will literally die if he rejects me

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Original post by Jigsaws mum

You HAD to make a thread on this?

yes

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Original post by Anonymous

I’m just so nervous! You’re totally right though. I will literally die if he rejects me

No, you don't! I have a friend who had a crush on me, and she was very sad and lost in tears in the moment I said that I don't share the same feelings for her. It lasted almost a week till she coped with the words I told.

And you will survive it too! what is worse? to live in uncertainty a long time till you have the courage to ask? it will drive you crazy with every single day you don't ask him. It is a shock for first, yes. But after that you have the certainty on your side. If he loves you, fine. If he does not, you have not to waste a thought on him anylonger and you can (must!) open your mind for another guys to start a relationship.

(edited 6 years ago)

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Original post by Kallisto

Oh my gosh thank you! I’m off for the next 2 weeks but I’ll really try

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Original post by Anonymous

Oh my gosh thank you! I’m off for the next 2 weeks but I’ll really try

That is the best you can do! I wish you the best of luck to become a couple with your college guy.

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Popsiclez

Original post by Anonymous

(on a guy in college) what do i do??? Right now we’re acquaintances and I don’t know how he feels about me although I’m sure he doesn’t *like* me. Any tips?

Does he even know you exist lmao? Because that kinda needs to happen first..

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