Why do some girls get jealous of pretty looking boys?

You are right I just want her to get over it. I just want proper friends who won't get jealous of me or basically bully or belittle me, but that is always what seems to happen and when I speak up and defend myself I am always the one who took it "too" far or they were just "kidding".

You know it ain’t that man she’s hot for you and hates the fact other women will want u that what’s it is man ! If you ain’t gay that is but if you are good looking you have her wanting you for herself it’s female manipulative banter !you ain’t got no confidence man otherwise you’ll be with some other ***** or her u choose

Lool how about you fire back next time.

The most savage would be "at least im attractive for a rapist to want me" but maybe that's overkill

She told me she is straight so that is not it. "Or she likes you" it is funny that you say that because she had told me in the past that she did not want to hang out too much with me in fear that it would look like we are dating. Honestly though why can't a girl and boy just be friends.

It always seems like the girls that appear friendly/give me looks want something more than friendship which I really am not ready for/way too busy for. And guys that I do not even know well seem intimidated, uncomfortable, ignore/dislike me for just being around. So I only have one friend (he is male) that does not mind being around me. Honestly I want more guy friends but other guys do not even want to get to know me.

A furious female classmate once told me "I hope you get raped". I took it as a compliment.


I know the feeling.

She probably likes you or is lying about being bisexual/lesbian. I'd be more worried about boys avoiding you...

Let me just say that I am very skinny and young looking for my age and also that I am not claiming the title "pretty boy", pretty is just a name that women/females chose to call me.

So I have a female friend who is stand offish and mean/harsh to me. I am nothing but nice and kind to her and at the time I was confused as to why she treated my so poorly. I always have to ask her to hang out with me never the reverse. She would say things to suggest that I was a weak and effeminate guy like how "I should be careful at night because I might get raped" or how "I should learn self defense to protect myself" stuff that you should never say to a boy, stuff that really messed with my head and made me feel bad about myself. But one time she told me over the phone that she was jealous of how pretty I was (really uncomfortable because I am a guy and I want to be handsome not pretty) but then the way she treats me is all due to jealousy? Why is she jealous of a boy? Can a girl or someone with a similar experience please explain this to me.

I can relate to this actually, a girl once kept saying to me "you could really pull off being gay" "you have such good posture you look gay"

I really dislike when people accuse guys of being gay for every other reason besides them liking other boys it really is just ridiculous really.

Actually she said something a little similar like "you could pass off as a girl if you really wanted to" I was like did she really just say that to me? That really made me mad. She is really insensitive seriously.