Firstly I didn’t cheat or do anything like that but let’s get started.
So I went out Saturday night with my group of friends and brought the girl I was dating with me (she knows all my friends but not particularly close).
Anyway just a bit of backstory, this girl and I had/have strong feelings for each other, talked every day, spent quality time together and started out as good friends before we were dating (known each other 1 year +). There were literally minimal arguments the whole time we’ve been exclusively dating..
Now back to the night, firstly she came to mine to get ready and it was lovely, quite intimate and then we headed to my friend’s house for pre drinks. Again at this point of the night, things were still going well, didn’t drink much but I hadn’t eaten much that day and so got drunk very quickly, like within 10 mins. Then we got the taxi from my friend’s house to the club, paid for the taxi got out and queued up then realised my WALLET WASN’T THERE. was extremely angry because I had my cards, a lot of my money and the girl’s money in (all of which has been paid back to her btw). So basically I was not in a good mood that night. Towards the end of the night, I don’t know why but I was being really quite confrontational with people and asking them if they’d seen my wallet, and almost got into a fight which I had to be pulled away from. Then in an outburst fuelled by me being drunk/ angry at losing my wallet I said to this girl that we’re done for like no reason at all, on reflection it literally meant nothing.
Anyway, i have met up with the girl since to return some things that she left at my house and had food with her today but she has told me she just wants to be friends due to my actions on the Saturday night, everyone else I’ve asked has said this is an overreaction because I’ve never acted like that before in my life and am generally considered a pretty chill guy. I would like to know if there’s anyone out there on her side who would make a decision that quickly about just being friends, like not gonna lie I was a massive nuisance/ **** that night but she knows I’m not like that deep down. Please share your thoughts thank you