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This shouldn't be your top priority. Girls your age want someone who's independent and has at least #2 and #3.
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Important, but wait for #3.
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You need to start somewhere. Even if it's as a binman or at KFC. You have to accept that your first job won't be nice, pay you a good wage or come with lots of perks, but it'll be better than nothing. Once you have employment experience, you can start working your way up. And make sure your CV is up to scratch.
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Not necessary to have a good life. You sound like you're already not in the best situation financially. £30k of debt isn't going to help. There are plenty of people who've done well without uni.
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Nobody (apart from a doctor) should tell you what you need to look like, but if you really don't like it, stop eating chocolate. Is the momentary pleasure really worth the calories and the money? If you really find it difficult, see a doctor. Eating disorders are tricky beasts and if you do have one, you need to make sure you get actual help rather than listening to the vast amount of fads and patent nonsense out there.
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What do you enjoy? I understand that you're rather remote and not being able to drive means getting to a physical club or gathering would be difficult, so try online! Try forums for stuff you enjoy. Heck, if all else fails, try making friends on TSR. Online forums really helped me through my dark patches.
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