How can I ever be wanted sexually?

I'm 32A and small 5"1 and 18 years of age.

There's more to a relationship than just personality and that's a given. I just feel like I'd fall on this side of it.

I just hate my breast sizes and would want them to be at least one or two cups bigger :frown:

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Reply 1

Zambrotta

just be yourself. I'm sure your nice and beautiful in YOUR own way.

don't worry too much. your smile is more important than your outlook physical appearance :smile:

Reply 2

SMEGGGY

Save up for tit enlargement

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Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Original post by Zambrotta

just be yourself. I'm sure your nice and beautiful in YOUR own way.

don't worry too much. your smile is more important than your outlook physical appearance :smile:

Thanks but I guess that'll be every girls response.

Rather have guys replying to this.

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

what happens when u try to talk to boys

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by SMEGGGY

Save up for tit enlargement

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No I'm worried about the repercussions it will have and it's not like it's permanent either.

Reply 6

Zambrotta

nothing wrong with us replying, is it?

in not trying to be rude or anything :frown:

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

what happens when u try to talk to boys

I don't other than classmates I talk too.

Reply 8

zero766

Original post by Anonymous

Believe it or not, breast size isn't everything. Other things will make up for it, i.e. facial features, being a healthy weight, good hygiene. A lot of guys like a big ass as well, so if you are gifted with that / go to the gym a lot then it will probably help you too.

Yes you are quite small, but women are expected to be smaller than guys, so arguably it may be beneficial as less guys will be intimidated than they may have been if you were taller than them

(edited 6 years ago)

Reply 9

username3525234

Breasts aren't even deep if you've got a big ass so just bang out squats and you'll be calm

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

Original post by Zambrotta

nothing wrong with us replying, is it?

in not trying to be rude or anything :frown:

Sorry, but I guess the question is targeted at guys because they think very differently to girls.

Reply 11

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

I don't other than classmates I talk too.

well there's half the problem right there , why not , boys cant make all the effort

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

Original post by zero766

Yeah but at this rate it feels like the guy would have bigger boobs than me lol. No I dont have good facial feautures either. I look skinny I guess?

Yea but going gym just for getting a big ass whilst nothing else is weird. Also wouldn't you have to keep it up for years?

It's not that often women are taller than guys and at this rate I look like a kid. Not a women.

Original post by mjustliving

Breasts aren't even deep if you've got a big ass so just bang out squats and you'll be calm

I don't really know where my weight gets distributed.. And it's pretty flat atm.

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

well there's half the problem right there , why not , boys cant make all the effort

It's very cliquey the friendship groups.

Reply 14

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

It's very cliquey the friendship groups.

ok whatever that means , also boobs aren't the only thing boys looks for , get that right

Reply 15

username2281303

Original post by Anonymous

trust me, you don't want big breasts

they're painful :frown:

( very painful :frown:

(

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

ok whatever that means , also boobs aren't the only thing boys looks for , get that right

Yes, but being wanted sexually is just as important as being wanted for your personality.

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

Original post by ZiggyStardust_

trust me, you don't want big breasts

they're painful :frown:

( very painful :frown:

(

I'm not asking for big but for them to just not be and non-existent :frown:

Reply 18

Retired_Messiah

Original post by Anonymous

Thanks but I guess that'll be every girls response.

Rather have guys replying to this.

Am guy, nobody gives a **** about your boobs being small

Reply 19

zero766

Original post by Anonymous

Work on things you can change, and if you can't change it, then you just have to learn to accept it.

If you seriously have very little chest at all and say you're skinny, your issue may be that you're underweight. If you put some weight on it could add some to your chest area.

Also, going to the gym to get better glutes is not at all weird, you go for the reasons you want to go. You certainly wouldn't be the only woman there for that reason. Who knows, you may find it to be a new hobby of yours or meet some guys there. The main thing is to do what YOU want to do.

Saying you look like a kid sounds like you have self-esteem issues. Not to mention, whether you have good or bad facial features is largely opinion, you will be a harsher critic of yourself than others would.

Finally, don't forget you're only 18. It is a very young age, as much as our sexualised society wants you to believe everyone is sleeping around like a porn star when they hit adulthood, it just isn't true. Easily 50% of your peers will be in the same situation, and there is no rush.

Everybody has a match. You'd be lying if you told me you'd never seen somebody with a partner that you thought was punching above their weight. I highly doubt you're as bad as you think though...