Am I a Narcissist?

Idk man seems pretty shallow really, but I ain’t here to judge. If your happy with your life then keep living it.

No I'm not happy.

You're wasting your time with "female psychology", they just want a man they find physically attractive. Therefore your physical pursuits are more important for that goal, and you'd better served trading time studying female psychology for making yourself hotter.

You won't be happy though to just pull a bunch of women you don't like. You have to be more selective to make it feel good, and specifically only talk to the ones you really like on sight. Talking to women you don't really like is weak behavior born out of insecurity and the need for validation.

Oh and also of course you are narcissistic. No question.

The kind of feeling I was getting is that your compensating for missing something. I know is really cheesy but would you feel content and happy if you had to judge yourself based on who you are as a person, not what you have achieved in life like your job and the women ?

I understand what you're saying about physical appearance. So that's your advice yeah? No more psychology?

Yes mate absolutely, that **** is just a fairytale told to unattractive people so they don't jump off the Grand Canyon. Of course, by the time unattractive people realize they have 0% hope of ever being with someone who doesn't make them feel physically sick, they're old and have no libido anymore, so no harm done hehe.

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None of this sounds like narcissistic personality disorder to me, you might have the vain side down but the element where your point of view is the only point of view seems to be missing? Narcissistic disorder means the world totally revolves around you, you're oblivious to other people's feelings and just don't take them into consideration. They love to be the center of attention and overall they're incredibly insecure people. That's their weakness. They hate having their weaknesses highlighted, because they think so highly of themselves so I've heard. It makes sense.

Having this disorder is nothing to be proud of. Like psychopathy it's debilitating. I pity their existence as it's shallow and pathetic, be thankful you're most likely not one. A narcissist probably wouldn't be asking if he/she is a narcissist.

How do you know so much about narcissism?

I don't consider myself an expert by any means I just had strong interest in mental health/disorders lol. If self-improvement is narcissism, we're all narcissistic! If you think about it why would a narcissist try to improve if they're already up themselves and think they're God's gift? Would they? That's actually an interesting question. If any professionals can answer, feel free lol.

Ok well it read like a good answer.

To be honest I'm not sure either. I'm going to see a GP about depression and hopefully I can get this NPD question answered.

Well I didn't pull that stuff out of my arse if that helps, I read about it a lot years ago so I know the signs of a narcissist. Do you have unstable relationships, do people complain that you are selfish and only concerned about yourself? Even covert ones are exploitative people/people that take advantage.

It's been so long since I last had a relationship that I can't really remember. I have been too depressed to have any good relationships to be honest.