What are your thoughts of cheaters ?

I recently was cheated on and it really hurt me although our relationship was extremely hard at times I always stayed loyal during heated arguments and break downs and I was extremely in love with the guy. I say is there something I could have done ? Maybe I was too annoying or argumentative ect.... there was rumours about him talking to another girl but I never had proof so if this was true he must have cheated multiple times. I ended the relationship after finding proof of another girl. I never ever expected it he was my best friend and boyfriend.

What are your thoughts of cheaters?

I recently was cheated on and it really hurt me although our relationship was extremely hard at times I always stayed loyal during heated arguments and break downs and I was extremely in love with the guy. I say is there something I could have done ? Maybe I was too annoying or argumentative ect.... there was rumours about him talking to another girl but I never had proof so if this was true he must have cheated multiple times. I ended the relationship after finding proof of another girl. I never ever expected it he was my best friend and boyfriend.

What are your thoughts of cheaters?

I recently was cheated on and it really hurt me although our relationship was extremely hard at times I always stayed loyal during heated arguments and break downs and I was extremely in love with the guy. I say is there something I could have done ? Maybe I was too annoying or argumentative ect.... there was rumours about him talking to another girl but I never had proof so if this was true he must have cheated multiple times. I ended the relationship after finding proof of another girl. I never ever expected it he was my best friend and boyfriend.

What are your thoughts of cheaters?

i am so sorry to hear this happned to you. you may think you were partly to blame but please know that cheaters will cheat under any circumstance. humans have free will. we are capable of knowing right from wrong and making our own decisions. he made the choice to cheat. he had a loyal girl but could not appreciate her. you have remained loyal to him even through difficult times as you have said. it takes a very mature person to do that. i hope you will eventually find someone who will cherish you and will not put you through this type of pain.

i am so sorry to hear this happned to you. you may think you were partly to blame but please know that cheaters will cheat under any circumstance. humans have free will. we are capable of knowing right from wrong and making our own decisions. he made the choice to cheat. he had a loyal girl but could not appreciate her. you have remained loyal to him even through difficult times as you have said. it takes a very mature person to do that. i hope you will eventually find someone who will cherish you and will not put you through this type of pain.

From a moral standpoint I frown on cheating

however at the end of the day it is just another hardwired mating strategy which significantly benefits the cheater whilst putting the cheatee at a disadvantage [you risk unknowingly raising another mans child if you are male being cheated on, or if you are female you risk the male abandoning you and any children for this other woman]......

if someone cheats on you, it's probably better to just get rid .......unless you're literally 100% certain it won't happen again

From a moral standpoint I frown on cheating

however at the end of the day it is just another hardwired mating strategy which significantly benefits the cheater whilst putting the cheatee at a disadvantage [you risk unknowingly raising another mans child if you are male being cheated on, or if you are female you risk the male abandoning you and any children for this other woman]......

if someone cheats on you, it's probably better to just get rid .......unless you're literally 100% certain it won't happen again

Cheaters deserve gulag and to be left out in the Siberian wilderness to freeze to death. My standpoint is that if you're not happy in the relationship, keep it decent, be a gentleman/gentlewoman and end it. Don't be a scumbag who plays with people's trust as though it were a toy and cheat on someone.

100%. I always use to tell him open up. He use to but stopped maybe because he was overwhelmed by arguments happening and closed up. I do get upset I'm fine through the day but at night I break down. It's still raw.

It's just hard to accept. I did end the relationship but I just wished he'd never have done that to me because I loved him a lot.