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My boyfriend watches porn but not that often I don't think,I don't think this is cheating but am I just being silly is this wrong of him to do?

Reply 1

Olivia-123

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Original post by VirgoStrain

Not really. If it doesn’t affect his behaviour it shouldn’t be an issue. Ideally he should do it in a way so you don’t find out but here we are.

Yeah thank you I just needed a second opinion

Reply 2

Olivia-123

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Original post by VirgoStrain

Doing it occasionally is fine. Doing it constantly would be an issue. He may well end up with having unrealistic expectations of sex.

Yeah I know what you mean,thank you much for your advice

Reply 3

Student-95

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Have you given him videos of you to use instead. If so I'd be offended that he'd rather look at other women. If not then no sweat.

Reply 4

Olivia-123

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Original post by Student-95

Have you given him videos of you to use instead. If so I'd be offended that he'd rather look at other women. If not then no sweat.

Nahh I haven't

Reply 5

Mini_1999

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Original post by Anonymous

My boyfriend watches porn but not that often I don't think,I don't think this is cheating but am I just being silly is this wrong of him to do?

girlll. listen. he is a boy and boys are superrrr sexual. so basically what you need to do is take a fork and slap him on the head with it and bingo he will never watch porn again. oh and add a touch of shouting to that as well

Reply 6

UWS

21

Lots of people watch it.

Reply 7

Anonymous #2

Original post by Mini_1999

irlll. listen. he is a boy and boys are superrrr sexual. so basically what you need to do is take a fork and slap him on the head with it and bingo he will never watch porn again. oh and add a touch of shouting to that as well

WTF did I just read :lolwut:

Reply 8

DrawTheLine

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Watching porn is totally normal and nothing to be ashamed or jealous of.

Reply 9

Kalail

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Original post by Anonymous

My boyfriend watches porn but not that often I don't think,I don't think this is cheating but am I just being silly is this wrong of him to do?

I'm in the same situation, except I'm the one watching the porn. it's not cheating, however imagine how it must make the other person feel. people watch porn to get off, so it seems he doesn't find you satisfying. I'm trying to quit atm but its hard. Talk to him about this

Reply 10

Mini_1999

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Original post by Anonymous

WTF did I just read :lolwut:

well my dear. you just read some words. duhh

Reply 11

Olivia-123

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Original post by Mini_1999

girlll. listen. he is a boy and boys are superrrr sexual. so basically what you need to do is take a fork and slap him on the head with it and bingo he will never watch porn again. oh and add a touch of shouting to that as well

Wow I shall loll

Reply 12

Olivia-123

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Original post by Kalail

I'm in the same situation, except I'm the one watching the porn. it's not cheating, however imagine how it must make the other person feel. people watch porn to get off, so it seems he doesn't find you satisfying. I'm trying to quit atm but its hard. Talk to him about this

He's obviously never done it when I've been with him or that but I just needed a second opinion

Reply 13

Olivia-123

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Original post by DrawTheLine

Watching porn is totally normal and nothing to be ashamed or jealous of.

Not jealous just needed a second opinion

Reply 14

Mini_1999

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Original post by Olivia-123

Wow I shall loll

thank you for considering my options lool x

Reply 15

HMPD97

18

Earlier this year I went through a horrible period of doubt and insecurity (e.g am I good enough/look good enough? is he comparing me to them?) because of this with my boyfriend of 4 years...so I can totally understand if you're having negative feelings about it.

The best thing I would suggest would be to talk to him about how it makes you feel and he can give you some reassurance. It can be quite hard to understand if you don't do it yourself. After all this I watched some, and it's really just the act that gets you off, so this made it feel less personal.

Remember, he is with you for a reason and if it isn't having a negative effect on your sex life then I wouldn't worry about it. But I know that's easier said than done.

Reply 16

edd522

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Original post by Mini_1999

girlll. listen. he is a boy and boys are superrrr sexual. so basically what you need to do is take a fork and slap him on the head with it and bingo he will never watch porn again. oh and add a touch of shouting to that as well

Disgusting sexist abuse! I'm going to report you on Twitter! #metoo

Reply 17

edd522

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Original post by Anonymous

My boyfriend watches porn but not that often I don't think,I don't think this is cheating but am I just being silly is this wrong of him to do?

Bears sh*t in the woods.
The Pope is Catholic.
Men watch porn.

Reply 18

Anonymous #3

No it's not normal (if your in a relationship), don't listen to these people.

Reply 19

Pigster

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Original post by Anonymous

My boyfriend watches porn but not that often I don't think,I don't think this is cheating but am I just being silly is this wrong of him to do?

Talk to him, not us.

If you are down with it, tell him. If you have a problem, tell him. If you want to watch it with him, tell him that too. He might not want to and you should allow him that without judging him on that, either.

If it is a biggie for you, I wouldn't suggest attempting to ban him. Even if you live together, he'll find a way. Methinks.

Boyfriend

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