This girl says she is in a relationship on fb but....

OP

Original post by Anonymous

Is this a rhetorical thread? Obviously

No a serious thread. Maybe she wants an upgrade :smile:

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Dani0322

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her behaviour seems questionable.....if she's in a relationship, she shouldn't really be approaching other men..... i mean it seems kind of wrong.... but i don't know her situation so.....

Reply 3

OP

Original post by Dani0322

her behaviour seems questionable.....if she's in a relationship, she shouldn't really be approaching other men..... i mean it seems kind of wrong.... but i don't know her situation so.....

She is young though and she has been with her bf for many years already. Think they met in middle high school. Maybe they are growing apart? She needs a change??

Reply 4

gymkana3000

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Original post by zill1

This girl has her fb saying she is in a relationship even posting a pic with her guy as her background pic but seems to be interested in me. Asks me lots of questions and has never mentioned to be about her bf. She asks me things like where do you live and what are your plans for the rest of the day that seem random and out of the blue! I like her. Should I ask her out?

Original post by Dani0322

her behaviour seems questionable.....if she's in a relationship, she shouldn't really be approaching other men..... i mean it seems kind of wrong.... but i don't know her situation so.....

Oh my days 🙄 no for the love of god don't ask her out. Ever heard of someone being friendly? I'm a girl and this sounds like she's just making conversation. If her Facebook page says she's in a relationship and there's even a photo of him and it says they've been together for a while - don't go there, how much more proof do you need? You can't just try and steal someone else's girl 😂 She's clearly still with him even if she hasn't mentioned him not all of us brag about who's arm we're attached to. Tbh I wouldn't even tell her you like her, most boyfriends are protective and it'll get you in a horrible mess if you do. @OP I'd steer well clear if I were you, and just remain friendly.

Reply 5

DrawTheLine

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Honestly it just sounds like she's making conversation and being a friend. I ask my colleagues the same questions just to get to know them a bit more. Don't be that guy.

Reply 6

OP

Its not like she is married. What if I am more suitable for her than her current bf?? After all they met when in highschool. People change over time.

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yudothis

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Original post by zill1

Its not like she is married. What if I am more suitable for her than her current bf?? After all they met when in highschool. People change over time.

Respect boundaries you creep! Do you honestly think a woman wants you just because they're being friendly?

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UWS

Original post by yudothis

Respect boundaries you creep! Do you honestly think a woman wants you just because they're being friendly?

Well.. This is the same guy who thought his dentist was flirting when she said she liked his teeth.

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yudothis

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Original post by UWS

Well.. This is the same guy who thought his dentist was flirting when she said she liked his teeth.

What a creep. Sounds like a future rapist.

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ElAshtonio

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When she ditches you for someone more attractive, don't come crying

Reply 11

shadowdweller

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Don't ask her out, she's in a relationship. It doesn't sound like she's clear either way about interest in you, it could just be general friendliness?

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Deliciate

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"She asks me things like where do you live and what are your plans for the rest of the day that seem random and out of the blue!"
?????? That is called initiating conversation ma friend, maybe she has an awkward way of expressing herself. You're reading into it way too much. You can't ask someone out if they are in a relationship, that's just messy.

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tasha2001

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Original post by zill1

This girl has her fb saying she is in a relationship even posting a pic with her guy as her background pic but seems to be interested in me. Asks me lots of questions and has never mentioned to be about her bf. She asks me things like where do you live and what are your plans for the rest of the day that seem random and out of the blue! I like her. Should I ask her out?

if she has a bf then no but if not go for it what ya going to lose ?

Reply 14

OP

You guys don’t know me though. Haven’t you heard of stories where a girl leaves his fb for another guy?

What if I am a really hot guy?

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UWS

Original post by zill1

You guys don’t know me though. Haven’t you heard of stories where a girl leaves his fb for another guy?

What if I am a really hot guy?

If she does that to her current bf, then how do you know she won't do the same to you? :rolleyes:

Reply 16

OP

Original post by UWS

If she does that to her current bf, then how do you know she won't do the same to you? :rolleyes:

May the best man win - that is my philosophy.

It’s not like i’m Proposing to her. Just making her mine gf. If she wants to leave for a better man then so be it.

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UWS

Original post by zill1

May the best man win - that is my philosophy.

It’s not like i’m Proposing to her. Just making her mine gf. If she wants to leave for a better man then so be it.

It sounds like you don't know what you want. To me it seems like you want a shallow girlfriend who will leave you for an upgrade.

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OP