I'm genuinely concerned about where I'll be living in second year. I've made friends with my coursemates and one girl in my flat is really lovely. We haven't really spoken about it yet. I want to bring it up in conversation, but I don't want it to get awkward if they say "oh yeah, we've already sorted who we're living with" and then find out I'm left with no one to live with.
I sort of talked about it with my flatmate, she asked me and our other flatmate if we know what's happening next year. She said she wants to live with 2 guys on her course, and then she said it'll be nice to have a girl to live with too. That's when I piped up and said "I'd like to live with you, you're really nice to live with" and it kind of got brushed off with "it's pretty early yet". We're both clean and we both get along. We have good conversations, but we're not really friends yet if you know what I mean.
With my coursemates, there's a group of about 6 of us which is pretty big for a house. We all get on and they're all lovely but I don't know if we will go about living with each other. It'd make sense to live with people on my course because then doing projects will be easier.
There's also the option of being a residential advisor which means I stay in halls for second year and potentially third year, where I'm like a mentor for the first years, sorting out flat problems and being someone to talk to. They get a £60 discount per week on their accommodation, meaning it's like £50 a week to live here, which is amazing and I'm considering it just because of how cheap it'll be to live here. However, do I actually want to stay in halls another year? It's so loud in freshers and I like my sleep.
So I don't really know what to do. I know I don't have to worry about it yet, but I want to get a good student house in a good location but I don't want to make my coursemates / flatmate think I'm desperate to live with them. I'd rather live with them than strangers. I want them to know I want to live with them, but I don't want them to think that I'm desperate to cling onto them. I hope I make sense and somebody understands how I'm feeling.