did i scare him away?

yesterday i went out for drinks with a guy i met at a social, i thought it went really well, we spoke about a lot of things and we ended up going to his place and just chilled on his bed and made out a lot lol, he also wanted to have sex but i wasn't ready so, which he was fine with. He said things like "i'm glad i met you", "we connect really well" "you're so cute" but idk i think he's probably said things like that to his last gf's so i doubt it means much. He then walked me to the bus stop and we hugged and he kissed me goodbye when my bus arrived. I was gonna say that we should meet up next week but because i was in a hurry to get on the bus i didn't get the chance, he hasn't messaged me since the meet up so i'm worried i scared him off? :/ idk if it was because i didn't want to have sex just yet...and that leads onto another question i have, if he wanted to have sex on the first date then is really interested in a relationship? i'm thinking of messaging him to ask if he wants to hang out again but idk if i should just wait a bit longer? i can't see him on the weekends anyways since i go home after uni and he knows that....idk guys what do you think pls? did he just want to have sex with me or does he actually like me?

Reply 1

Chicken.M.

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Original post by Anonymous

i'm thinking of messaging him to ask if he wants to hang out again but idk if i should just wait a bit longer?

Don't see the point in waiting to ask lol. He might end up making other plans if you wait ages.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

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Original post by ChickenMadness

Don't see the point in waiting to ask lol. He might end up making other plans if you wait ages.

hmm ok :/

Reply 3

del1rious

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Just text him!!!! On the flip side if he really is being off with you because you didn’t want to have sex then you have dodged a bullet.

It sounds like you had a really nice time together so it would be a shame to not at least make an effort

Reply 4

Froppy

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If i was the guy, after what happened i would want to make sure the relationship goes at a pace your comfortable with so would hold back texting you and wait for you to text me whenever you were ready. >_< Not sure if that's what he's thinking...but it might be. Anyway you should try texting him and see :smile:

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

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Original post by del1rious

Just text him!!!! On the flip side if he really is being off with you because you didn’t want to have sex then you have dodged a bullet.

It sounds like you had a really nice time together so it would be a shame to not at least make an effort

that's a good point, i'll text him soon

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

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Original post by Froppy

If i was the guy, after what happened i would want to make sure the relationship goes at a pace your comfortable with so would hold back texting you and wait for you to text me whenever you were ready. >_< Not sure if that's what he's thinking...but it might be. Anyway you should try texting him and see :smile:

looks like the majority wants me to text him back first, defo gonna try, guess i won't have much to lose