What should you do when you're nervous to talk to a girl?

How can you make yourself go talk to someone you think looks nice?

A lot of my nights out I see a girl I like, try to psyche myself up to go say hello and then some other guy talks to her instead. Then my night is ruined and I lose all energy.

I've never in my life been able to just walk up to someone and be like hey you look nice what's your name, or whatever.

My mate's girlfriend sometimes talks to them for me and they say to her I should go chat to them, but I feel too nervous and just stay where I am.

Gulp down some water and man up to talk to em. If you pussy out all your life you wont go anywhere.

remember that they want you to talk to them

If this is always on nights out, is getting more drunk not surely the most logical solution here?

I feel I am very ugly and also uncool/inferior.

Unfortunately not, because when I'm drunk I start slurring and acting weird and then nobody's attracted to me anymore.

How can you make yourself go talk to someone you think looks nice?

A lot of my nights out I see a girl I like, try to psyche myself up to go say hello and then some other guy talks to her instead. Then my night is ruined and I lose all energy.

I've never in my life been able to just walk up to someone and be like hey you look nice what's your name, or whatever.

My mate's girlfriend sometimes talks to them for me and they say to her I should go chat to them, but I feel too nervous and just stay where I am.

Drink more.

Ahahah 😂😂🍺🍻🥂🍾🍷 A would suggest just a glass of sparkling red wine for a start! Just that little drizzle of alcohol which will make you just a bit tipsy and buzzed ..This may help you to be a bit more chatty 😜 But Don't exceed and get wasted ! It's not good for you ..

Alcohol doesn't help in this way for me tbh. Only Molly does. On Molly I can chat anyone up lmao, probably celebrity models, it's a weird experience.

I think I'm going to have to do this by desensitization. Get over the initially impossible seeming hurdle and then do it 100000 times in a row the same exact thing.

Are there any techniques I can use to psyche myself up so I can do it the first time? I just freeze up completely. Any lifehacks to force yourself to do scary ****?

Alcohol doesn't help in this way for me tbh. Only Molly does. On Molly I can chat anyone up lmao, probably celebrity models, it's a weird experience.

I think I'm going to have to do this by desensitization. Get over the initially impossible seeming hurdle and then do it 100000 times in a row the same exact thing.

Are there any techniques I can use to psyche myself up so I can do it the first time? I just freeze up completely. Any lifehacks to force yourself to do scary ****?