Look, if you feel self conscious about yourself, taking another person’s compliments as your own will not help you. If you feel you want to change something about yourself, that you think it will benefit you, then do it! But don’t fix something that is not broken in the first place. Instead of looking at the negativess, look at the positives! Find something you like about yourself and focus on that! For somebody to love you, you must first love yourself. X