Girlfriend followed a bunch of people on Instagram from hotel resort we visited ?

So 2 weeks ago, we went for a 3 day holiday to gran canaria. Had a lovely time.

However, yesterday a guy commented on my girlfriend picture, that "you have a nice pair of pins" . I went on this guys profile and he had taken photos at the same Hotel we stayed in, during the time we were there.

I did some more stalking of people who were on his Instagram, and my girlfriend was already following 3 people who had been tagged in his instagram. All of whom went on holiday to the same hotel during the time we went there.

I don't recall my girlfriend talking to any strangers during the holiday and we spent all of our time together.

When did she meet this guy and his friends ? I checked her instagram inbox and she hasn't received any dms or anything.

Did you ask her about it?

This reads like the premise for a psychological horror.

Has she been acting different ? Maybe the guy found her on Instagram and followed her. I would say ask her and see what she says, you’ll know for sure then.

No she is acting the same. I dont have a problem with her talking to guys or going on girls nights out etc. Just seems odd she met up to 4 people on Holiday, that I didnt know about.

Hmm if she’s given you a reason to doubt her, I completely understand. Otherwise just be careful with how you ask her, if she hasn’t done something wrong you could offend her. It seems like you don’t trust her. That does sound strange and not a coincidence, since it’s 4 people I would suggest asking her for sure.

Shouldn't be offensive asking a simple question like that. If she finds it offensive she's an idiot lol.

Well if my bf accused me of anything along the lines of that I’d be very offended. It shows that he doesn’t trust me or he assumed I don’t respect myself enough to not entertain any ounce of attention I get.

Well if my bf accused me of anything along the lines of that I’d be very offended. It shows that he doesn’t trust me or he assumed I don’t respect myself enough to not entertain any ounce of attention I get.

ok, so I texted her and just mentioned that I saw a comment on her instagram account that was bugging me and I was just curious what happened.

She said she woke up early one day and went for a swim and found a spot near a bunch of irish guys who began talking to her. They asked for her instagram as she was leaving and she just followed them back.

which odd coz she doesn't normally follow back but at end of the day its only instagram

How can you have that attitude with a username like that

Btw trust is earned. You gain trust by answering innocent questions like the ones OP has and not making a big deal about it. You lose trust by acting all defensive instead of being straightforward about it.

She said she woke up early one day and went for a swim and found a spot near a bunch of irish guys...

Hmmm that does sound strange, they clearly got the impression that she was interested for them to feel comfortable enough to ask her. Did she tell you exactly what happened or did you piece it together ? If she was honest with you I guess you don’t have anything to worry about

You checked her inbox hahaha.

Mate just ask the question, yous are already in trouble if you're checking her inbox.