I am struggling with severe depression because of this. My girlfriend was going to boarding school, and all I have ever dreamed about is a future with her. I obsessed to the every detail, blocked out any flaws in us. She asked me to marry her, and despite being young, I was impulse by my fantasies because the truth was too much. We got rings, I told my parents, and we were so perfect. I loved her so much. Two weeks into boarding school, she broke up with me. Told me those promises were a lie, and told me that she never wanted to see me again. She could never tell me what I had done wrong. She was the woman of my dreams and I lost her for dreaming too much.