ok so i have a voltage of 6V and a resistor of 39000V
when its discharging i do 6 x 1/e = 2.207V (is this the time constant) when its charging i do 6 x 2/e = 4.415V(is this the time constant)
then C=T/r which is equal to 2.207/39000= 5.66x10^-5 F (discharging) C=T/r which is equal to 4.415/39000= 1.132x10^-4 F(charging)
The time constant Is the time taken to reach that voltage from when you start discharging, not the voltage itself. I.e. It would be the time taken discharging from 6v to 2.207v which you can read from the graph