How do women date so easily in this day and age?

OP

But you haven't even chased after one?

Yes I know. But in order to date you need to find a few guys to bond with. Before I get into a relationship, I would want to date and test to see which guy I am most compatible with. And so it is just too difficult and stressful to do so

Reply 81

CleverSquirrel

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Original post by Wilfred Little

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whats your take on all of this?

Reply 82

ANM775

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go to one of those custom made clothes websites online, and make a custom shirt saying "single and ready to mingle"

wear it with you wherever you go

if that doesn't work, then i'm sorry it's either a life alone or you start approaching guys

Reply 83

loveleest

OP

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Original post by ANM775

go to one of those custom made clothes websites online, and make a custom shirt saying "single and ready to mingle"

wear it with you wherever you go

if that doesn't work, then i'm sorry it's either a life alone or you start approaching guys

No, im not interested. I am completely fine with staying single forever like I have said many times on this thread. Thanks!

Reply 84

username917703

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Original post by CleverSquirrel

whats your take on all of this?

Genuine question?

Reply 85

CleverSquirrel

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Original post by Wilfred Little

Genuine question?

yes of course, i mean whats it like from a guys perspective, because for me, honestly, every time i thought a guy was right for me, they all had issues with commitment and taking things forwards, leaving me with feelings for a guy who didnt want me

Reply 86

username917703

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Original post by CleverSquirrel

yes of course, i mean whats it like from a guys perspective, because for me, honestly, every time i thought a guy was right for me, they all had issues with commitment and taking things forwards, leaving me with feelings for a guy who didnt want me

I think it's easy to tell when guys are only after one thing and if you want more then as someone else said set your boundaries early on, make it clear what you want and stick to it. Will probably meet more serious guys as you get older (as correct me if I'm wrong but based on your first post you seem in your teens/early 20s).

With regards to the OP, she needs to look at herself and I'm not trying to be a **** by saying that. I don't think anyone believes she is genuinely OK with being single for the rest of her life.

Reply 87

ANM775

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Original post by Wilfred Little

With regards to the OP, she needs to look at herself and I'm not trying to be a **** by saying that. I don't think anyone believes she is genuinely OK with being single for the rest of her life.

She's not.

Quite a while back there was this Asexual girl called sherlock and she had given up on men and was adamant on remaining single for the rest of her life and loveleest was one of the people trying to convince her not to give up on men and telling her that she would not be happy living like this.

Reply 88

loveleest

OP

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Original post by Wilfred Little

I think it's easy to tell when guys are only after one thing and if you want more then as someone else said set your boundaries early on, make it clear what you want and stick to it. Will probably meet more serious guys as you get older (as correct me if I'm wrong but based on your first post you seem in your teens/early 20s).

With regards to the OP, she needs to look at herself and I'm not trying to be a **** by saying that. I don't think anyone believes she is genuinely OK with being single for the rest of her life.

I really, really am! I am being dead serious

Reply 89

loveleest

OP

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Original post by ANM775

She's not.

Quite a while back there was this Asexual girl called sherlock and she had given up on men and was adamant on remaining single for the rest of her life and loveleest was one of the people trying to convince her not to give up on men and telling her that she would not be happy living like this.

lol it's hilarious that people are trying to tell me, how I feel. But ok.

Reply 90

CleverSquirrel

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Original post by Wilfred Little

I think it's easy to tell when guys are only after one thing and if you want more then as someone else said set your boundaries early on, make it clear what you want and stick to it. Will probably meet more serious guys as you get older (as correct me if I'm wrong but based on your first post you seem in your teens/early 20s).

With regards to the OP, she needs to look at herself and I'm not trying to be a **** by saying that. I don't think anyone believes she is genuinely OK with being single for the rest of her life.

yeah gonna be 21 soon, and youre right, im a really bad judge of character and hella of a lot gullible too :redface:

yeah i get where youre coming from, but i think she kinda meant it in a 'id rather be single than getting screwed over' kind of way

Reply 91

username3118454

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It's subjective when you're compading two people of similar attractiveness.

So what I think is seven you might think is an 8 but neither of us would think someone around the 3-5 region is an 8+

Reply 92

Anonymous #4

Could this possibly have to do with Valentine day

Reply 93

gjd800

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Some of us just can't be arsed with the nonsense.

Reply 94

Bang Outta Order

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Maybe they dont think you're attractive. Men still approach women.

Reply 95

Anonymous #5

maybe you're just not attractive enough for guys to want to make the move. guys might need to get to know your personality a bit more so it might be better if you take the initiative and go up to guys. i don't know if guys are getting lazier, perhaps they are because of tinder, but attractive girls will always having guys coming up to them. tbh you don't even need to be that attractive to pull in a bar/club. if you really don't want to go up and strike a conversation then at least make it more obvious to guys that you're interested in them. smile, hold eye contact, find an excuse to stand by them. you'll make it easier for them to approach but when they do, they'll think it was them that approached and did the hard work. so you don't have to worry about coming across needy. i think the reason why a lot of guys are now wanting women to make the first move is because women can be so fussy and can easily put you in the friend zone. women always have it easier when it comes to dating, so some guys just don't want to take the risk because they assume that the woman has loads of other options

Reply 96

toonervoustotalk

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sometimes tbh you only realise how great the single life when you enter a relationship lol
dont want some clingy girl taking my precious oxygen ygm and is in your face 24/7 :colonhash:

when you are single your bank balance tends to look more healthy, you can have less stress as well :tongue:

also you dont need a partner to be satisfied in life :biggrin:

inb4 "Men are trash" :teehee:

Im 20 almost 21, never been on a date too but am I going to let that put me down
"absolutely ******* not*

(edited 6 years ago)

Reply 97

username2406123

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Original post by loveleest

no lol.

Some men are fickle beasts. You'll meet a weird one, one day, who thinks girls who approach first are thirsty. It's easy for people here to type to you what to do while they do or prefer the opposite. In real life, do not ever approach a man first. On the internet you must and ignore the strange occasional "man" who insults you for it 😙

Reply 98

username2406123

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Original post by toonervoustotalk

sometimes tbh you only realise how great the single life when you enter a relationship lol
dont want some clingy girl taking my precious oxygen ygm and is in your face 24/7 :colonhash: