How to meet a young girl in a pub

I do like you

From what you have said the feeling ain't mutual

I do like you

From what you have said the feeling ain't mutual

Yeah that’ll be a hard pass.

I’ll give you a tip though; girls who look for older guys want a confident and well presented man who makes them feel like water in the desert. Daddy issues means they want someone who makes them feel secure and gives them constant affirmation (compliments) and they expect a little sugar (m-o-n-e-y or gifts).

Judging from what you’ve written you don’t have the confidence or social skills to take it anywhere further than flirting before the girl feels the creepy vibes that you almost definitely have irl as well as on here, or else (like @Bang Outta Order said) if they like men your age but not you, your age isn’t the problem. Something else is setting off red flags when you’re talking them, hence no score.

Yeah that’ll be a hard pass.

I’ll give you a tip though; girls who look for older guys want a confident and well presented man who makes them feel like water in the desert. Daddy issues means they want someone who makes them feel secure and gives them constant affirmation (compliments) and they expect a little sugar (m-o-n-e-y or gifts).

Judging from what you’ve written you don’t have the confidence or social skills to take it anywhere further than flirting before the girl feels the creepy vibes that you almost definitely have irl as well as on here, or else (like @Bang Outta Order said) if they like men your age but not you, your age isn’t the problem. Something else is setting off red flags when you’re talking them, hence no score.

Yeah that’ll be a hard pass.

I’ll give you a tip though; girls who look for older guys want a confident and well presented man who makes them feel like water in the desert. Daddy issues means they want someone who makes them feel secure and gives them constant affirmation (compliments) and they expect a little sugar (m-o-n-e-y or gifts).

Judging from what you’ve written you don’t have the confidence or social skills to take it anywhere further than flirting before the girl feels the creepy vibes that you almost definitely have irl as well as on here, or else (like @Bang Outta Order said) if they like men your age but not you, your age isn’t the problem. Something else is setting off red flags when you’re talking them, hence no score.

smile, take 3 deep breaths and don't move
smile
relax your feet, upper part of the body, followed by your neck and head.
complete relax.
ask her any question about food, drink, anything related to what she is doing at the moment
smile and make eye contact
give your opinion on the topic
offer her a drink, food, dance
compliment her looks
chat
take her number
set a date
buy her a small gift (chocolate box, flower)
enjoy your time.

I like you allot
Wish i could meet you in a pub/club
Or meet you face to face some time ?

I'm 36.

I have real confidence and self-esteem issues, get highly anxious/nervous.

I am wanting to meet a young girl in a pub but struggling at the moment.

Even when a young girl comes over to me and asks to sit down with me i panic and end up running off.

There was one girl who asked me to come over and sit down, which i did. I sat down with her and i just started to panic. Did not know what to say, said the wrong things and she ends up leaving. There was one point where she started throwing cards and straws at me and i ended up throwing the straws back at her and saying naughty things to her. She did say goodbye with her hand out and we touched hands to say bye when she was leaving, which was nice.

Even when i say the right things and the young girl is really enjoying what i am saying to her i panic and end up running off and really regretting it.

I get really stressed out by it and just end up getting hammered and end up in strip club.

Any help would be good!

There was another young woman standing outside the pub which i thought was waiting to get in the pub.

I asked he if she was waiting in the queue to get into the pub and she replied she is here to smoke.

I replied by saying silly me and i said i was enjoying the view and a lovely view it is. Obviously about her.

She giggled and started to feel my arm. Panic set in and i ran in the pub thinking what the hell am i running away and just got drunk.

She did say please don't run away and talk to me outside.

DOES TALKING TO A YOUNG WOMAN AND NOT RUNNING AWAY AND CHATTING TO THEM JUST TAKE PRACTISE AND I WILL GET BETTER OR SHOULD I JUST GIVE UP ? I PULLED THE OTHER DAY BUT I HELPED HER GO WITH SOMEONE ELSE. WAS BEING NICE AND HELPED HER. DEAR GOD.

Marc, are you as pathetically timid in your gardening business as you are outside pubs?


BTW, how much did you make (put into your own pockets after tax) in 2017 from your gardening business?

Imagine being a gardener but not being able to get near a bush...

Imagine being a gardener but not being able to get near a bush...