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Bicurious girl

So this is kind of a wierd question maybe stupid haha. I’m 20 years old and I think I’m bicurious, I’ve only ever had sex with guys and been attracted to guys until the last few months. I stumbled on lesbian porn and ended up having an amazing orgasm and ever since I really want to hook up with girls but I have no idea where to speak to girls or how to go about it. I’m too embarassed to ask any of my friends and its all so new to me I just don’t know what to do, can anyone help me? Apologies if its a stupid question!
Reply 1
try pof

statistics show most same sex couples [like 70%] meet online these days.

I once tried a catfish profile as an unattractive girl on pof [woman seeking woman] and for some reason bi/lesbian women seem to have really low standards in other females because it wasn't hard to get a reply ..and tons of girls clicked they wanted to meet-her on the meet-me feature.
Tinder is an easy way to meet people your age who are not looking for anything too serious
Reply 3
Original post by ANM775
try pof

statistics show most same sex couples [like 70%] meet online these days.

I once tried a catfish profile as an unattractive girl on pof [woman seeking woman] and for some reason bi/lesbian women seem to have really low standards in other females because it wasn't hard to get a reply ..and tons of girls clicked they wanted to meet-her on the meet-me feature.


Not a lot of gay gals are happy about being someone’s experiment though.

OP hit up gay clubs, one night stand would be best if you just want to know if you like to bang chicks. You could use dating apps, but if you do please say you’re bi curious in your profile so you don’t lead on any girls looking for something more serious!
Reply 4
Original post by cat_mac
Not a lot of gay gals are happy about being someone’s experiment though.




None were even suspicious :biggrin:

The results were quite interesting though, and also baffling. I still have not come up with an answer as to why women seeking men are so so much pickier online than women seeking woman.

this girl was like 4/10 and there's no way a 4/10 dude would have had anywhere close to the attention from women this girl had....
Reply 5
Original post by ANM775
None were even suspicious :biggrin:

The results were quite interesting though, and also baffling. I still have not come up with an answer as to why women seeking men are so so much pickier online than women seeking woman.

this girl was like 4/10 and there's no way a 4/10 dude would have had anywhere close to the attention from women this girl had....


I meant OP’s experiment about their sexuality not your catfish one :top:

The answer is supply and demand! The pool is a lot smaller for girls looking for girls. Grinder and things like that are massive in the gay community, but for lesbian and bi girls it’s much less competitive. Especially if you’re not in a big city!
Reply 6
Original post by cat_mac
I meant OP’s experiment about their sexuality not your catfish one :top:

The answer is supply and demand! The pool is a lot smaller for girls looking for girls. Grinder and things like that are massive in the gay community, but for lesbian and bi girls it’s much less competitive. Especially if you’re not in a big city!




Supply and Demand definitely matters in dating.
I've noticed time and time and again I will get more attention in a small club with fewer people than a large club with many 100's [less competition]

The experiment was in London. There was noticeably less options for bi/lesbian woman than man seeking woman or woman seeking man, but still a reasonable amount to choose from. I'm not really sure the supply and demand could have that grand an effect on womans pickiness ...but then again I suppose in real life or at bars/clubs etc they are probably not hit on by other women so if what they see online is their only options then I guess perhaps they might be much less picky.

this is the woman used.
https://s17.postimg.org/uep826h3z/JCused.png

this was her meetme after like 24 hours
https://s17.postimg.org/xzl3l4izz/hermeetme1_C.png
https://s17.postimg.org/c0eoxyzlr/hermeetme2_C.png
https://s17.postimg.org/ay4ifgbnj/hermeetme3_C.png


There will be males better looking than this woman on straight pof who arn't getting anywhere close to that.

If you are seeking a woman through online dating best be either an 8+ male or another female.

that's my conclusion. :/
Thanks everyone! I’m gonna try POF and see how I get on! Yeah I get that people wouldn’t want to be my experiment I’d definately make sure to tell them! But who knows if I could be in a relationship i’m just open to trying :smile:

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