Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now we are both 19, in which I am very close to his family in which he has two brothers, one who is 17 and the other who is 15. when i'm not at university I live at his house with his family.
So I have recently caught my boyfriends brother who is 15 filming me in the shower, I caught him recently in which his phone was under the door with the camera facing upwards so that when I get out of the bath I would be seen. I saw the phone under the door in which I tried to grab it but my boyfriends brother pulled the phone back.
This isn't the first time that this has happened in which times before my boyfriend has said that his brothers phone was near the door and area, however we discussed this and thought he dropped his phone when leaving the bathroom as we didn't think his brother was capable of doing something like this. (This conversation happened about 3 to 4 months ago)
Not too long after that conversation happened I saw his brothers phone under the door with the camera facing upwards and another time was on a shelf next to the window with the camera facing towards the shower, both these times I went onto the phone to see that it was locked and the camera had not been used, thus thinking about mine and my boyfriends discussion that he left it in there or dropped it on the way out by accident.
However the most recent time I was 100% sure of what he was doing as he pulled the phone away from me, I told my boyfriend and he told his parents in which his brother has been punished by his phone, laptop, tv and xbox being taken away, both parents have said sorry for his actions in which both have expressed that the situation is not okay and they are very upset as I am essentially part of the family.
I am disgusted, angry and creeped out that this has happened to me and have been unaware that this could have been happening for months.
my question here is what do I do? I am here for a lot of the time and not sure if I should avoid him or speak to him? He is 15 and has made a mistake however I am unable to see how he wouldn't understand the gravity of the situation in the first place as his parents have taught him whats right and whats wrong.
What should I do?