Update
So I recently started a FWB situation with a Singaporean born South Indian masters student. She knows that i have no interest at all in being in a relationship and refuse to even attempt a public relationship with an Arab or South Asian woman due to the danger. I mentioned, honour killings, honour beatings, acid attacks, black social stigma, disowning etc. etc. She has a fetish too so its sort of a mutual thing.
Also, I have a Gujarati Medical student who is also interested in meeting. We discussed the black male stigma in her culture and she still wants to meet privately, so she may also be open to the idea.
Conclusion
(1) I have accepted and realise that relationships or any sort of public union is too dangerous so ill never do it
(2) I will continue to engage in these casual, taboo, underground sexual activities until I settle down with my own kind
(3) I will continue to be upfront and honest with my intentions and the reasons why I will never,ever, ever be more than a sex toy to these women
(4) I love the women but I hate the culture, so I won't entangle myself in it by meeting family,friends or being seen in public with one.
"Know your role" and my role is to be the discrete,shameful, lustful secret that must never be seen during daylight hours. Sort of like a vampire...
K.G
BTW This is Multicultural Britain in 2018. Worrying about being hacked to bits, or having acid thrown in your face for having a mutual, romantic, consensual relationship with woman....ain't that something.