Women who are used to hooking up with physically attractive guys, rate me /10.

But do have a suspicion that there's something about my face that ONLY women can notice that's really offputting...

Like it doesn't make sense that guys tell me I look so great and always saying "oh every girl must throw themselves at you!" but then nobody really makes eye contact with me when I go out except women who are not my type.

Thanks... That's interesting, how much does body matter to women? I noticed I got checked out wayyyy more while on steroids, made me even think it's more important than facial appearance.

I've noticed that basically every ugly guy with a hot gf is big in some way. Either just naturally big like 6'2 and wide, or obviously jacked.

Well my biceps are 393 mm around, so this is indeed true.

6.5/10
only because a smile would be nice but i also don't know your personality and therefore you could be a complete douche (no offense) no offence which would be a big turn off xx

Is this thread for real?

I can't believe you would post your picture onto a student website! I am insecure but god I would never go that far.

Anyway, in answer to your question, (I am a gay male) I would personally give you a 7.5 out of 10. Now a lot of girls would love your build, so I would say for most girls you would be anywhere from a 7-9/10. But of course everyone is different. Attraction is subjective.

So I will say that I think the problem is nothing to do with your looks, maybe you come across as too tense/uncomfortable/serious when approaching girls. If you had more confidence in yourself and were a bit more chill you could definitely pull a girl you wanted to.

That's where I place myself too (6/10) although it's shakey and goes up and down based on my mood - but logically 6/10 is where I most often return to.

Is that actually good enough? Like if I go up to a girl who's really hot is she just gonna think "this guy is only a 6 he's not good enough for me" and insta reject me?

I think I'll work some more on my facial appearance until I'm 7+. Or just roid really really hard so I can be a butterface lol. Some girls are into butterfaces right?

Yeah as per the thread title. Would you say I'm attractive enough to hook up with? And rate /10.



Don't rate if you just rate anyone who isn't morbidly obese above average 'cause it would skew things.

If you rate 5/10 or below average please explain why.

Many tankzzzz.

Okay I hook up with guys with string jawlines and muscles and I dont think a well groomed man is "not masculine" and im picky

I would rate you a 6.7/10

Mainly because chest to stomach proportions are off and you do a death glare. However with that said your hair cut is really nice and your arms arent pretentiously big.
However if Im sober you'd have to have an interesting personality we could chat
And if Im drinking if youre funny a cheeky kiss would be acceptable but I wouldn't pounce you.

So overall you have potential, you just need a bit of a chase

would rate quite low, maybe 4/10

main turn offs are the skin tight t-shirt, which shows off your already big muscles making me think you both love yourself and are insecure about yourself. basically fragile narcissist. second thing that's a red flag is the perfectly close shaven beard - looks very preened and not masculine to me. both these things would be ok if you were gay though.

Nice. This is literally exactly what I was looking for.

Is there anything you can suggest that would make me more physically attractive? I was thinking of trying highlights in my hair. My hair is actually quite bad sometimes, I have a widow's peak so have to sweep it across to make my hairline look straight.

Working on being more confident is fine, the only thing I was concerned about is if my looks are bad enough to be rejected on sight by most really attractive women (like they wouldn't even give me a chance).

I did find I was able to do very well when I took pills in Ibiza that made me super confident. So yeah maybe I'm at that point where I'm not too ugly to instantly reject, but not hot enough to just stand there and be pounced on by 8s. Lol. That's very interesting...

Nice. This is literally exactly what I was looking for.

Is there anything you can suggest that would make me more physically attractive? I was thinking of trying highlights in my hair. My hair is actually quite bad sometimes, I have a widow's peak so have to sweep it across to make my hairline look straight.

Working on being more confident is fine, the only thing I was concerned about is if my looks are bad enough to be rejected on sight by most really attractive women (like they wouldn't even give me a chance).

I did find I was able to do very well when I took pills in Ibiza that made me super confident. So yeah maybe I'm at that point where I'm not too ugly to instantly reject, but not hot enough to just stand there and be pounced on by 8s. Lol. That's very interesting...

Your hair is fine honestly taking care of yourself is attractive enough. You wouldnt be rejected on sight at all, like most girls would give you like the time to introduce yourself unless they have a very specific type however introductions are vital and thats why a girl would have a friend pull away quickly like being too tense or eager is off putting and if you regularly get hit on like you learn to filter people really quick because guys are predictable (sorry to guys but its true)
Your face and body is good honestly with the right energy you could easily go up to a 7 or 8

Well there's many options but here's one you can relate to

Thank you this is such a big help, I'm glad I made this thread now.

I don't wanna hassle you, but could you walk me through roughly what to do if I see someone I'm attracted to? NONE of my friends can pull, I literally have no male role models, so I don't really know what I'm meant to do lmfao, I've just been winging it for the past year. You don't have to, you just seem to be in the know.