need advice talking to girls

Most of your conversations in everyday life aren't solely question and answer oriented. It involves commenting on what each other has to say, maybe relating to it to some extent, sharing similar stories, etc..

It's like talking to any of your guy mates. Do you end up interviewing them or do you have things you can relate to each other about? Talking to a guy is the same as talking to a girl.

Ask open ended questions rather than yes/no questions. If they're giving dead replies then they're probably not interested anyway.

Firstly find something you have in common with the girl, if it's someone from school/college then that's deffo a place to start. If you start with that common ground then it's a lot easier to get a proper conversation flowing, that can become flirty. As a girl myself I personally like it when a guy is confident, am not talking about being arrogant and up yourself cos that's what's gonna make you look like a ****boy but don't be afraid to throw a flirty comment into the conversation. Either they like it or they don't but at least then you know if they're actually interested back.

Ask her if she'd like to engage in rough coitus.

Brevity.

Well the flirting can start off pretty basic. For example if you ask what she's doing and she's I dunno watching a particular tv programme you can just say, "oh I've heard that's good you'll have to let me watch it with you one day " ... you get me? And then you can gradually get to the shower stuff lol. And no don't put yourself down too much, unless your in a pretty deep conversation and you're genuinely being honest. If it's fake it means nothing to a girl .

If you two go to the same school ,are in the same classes, live in the same area,etc.. try to talk about stuff concerning that. Dont sound to pushy or desperate though. Maybe start with did you start the homework / assignment yet? I know it’s abit boring but it’s a start. Now if you want more interesting ones, try to say stuff like;I would like to get to know you better, you down or nah?Say stuff about celebrities..ALWAYS refer to stuff you two have in common.Move slow but dont leave her hanging.Make her feel confident and safe around you.I hope this helps good luck.

waht is that

what do you mean by open ended questions?
and yea i guess but i usually talk to people about experiences with one another and i have no experience with a girl im talking to. i dont have many friends and the ones i do have i just talk about school and stuff, and the girl im trying to talk to doesnt go to my school


when you slay flirty comment how flirty is it? like saying i just got out the shower or that i can only type with 1 hand? like what level of flirtiness if u know what i mean thanks. do you like it when a guy puts himself down a bit so you can bring him up? ie i would say im a bit boring and u would be saying oh no ur not ur really nice etc?

That's not flirting, that's overt and just plain weird

Oh yeah i totally understand. I think maybe you should try talk to them about stuff you know they’re into. For example you obvs like them for a reason, maybe it’s their passion for something or the way they look. Either way, you can use that as a way to talk to them. If u know they like to sing/dance/sport/etc...say “i know you like_____maybe we could do it together sometime haha” or “ you like____don’t you?, i’m into their music too.” Also try to let the convo flow, if it feels forced maybe they’re just not right for you. Are you UK or USA or other ? Just wondering so i can refer to stuff like schools and college etc

so im male 16 and im trying to flirt with girls so i can eventually go out with them but it never goes as planned.
the convos eggalways me asking wuu2, and there like nothing much u and i say im watching tv or some **** and then its just back to square one? i ask a question and i get an answer and i dont know what to do next? its like it turns into some kind of interview when im trying to flirt i also dont wanna come across as too ****boy either so i dont dive in too deep. does any girl have any advice on the best ways that guys speak to them through text? and what convo starters are there? i tried googling some but they are all just cringey stuff you would never say, thanks