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is it just me?

blobby2000

if a guy tells you you're fit is it a compliment or a pointless flirt? this became a huge debate in my class so what do u think

(edited 6 years ago)

Reply 1

Leslie Knope

Defo a possible flirt or a compliment

Reply 2

blobby2000

Original post by TheGirlFelonXxXx

Defo a possible flirt or a compliment

every time? someone suggested sometimes it can be made in passing, it just seemed interesting with all the contexts but no one seemed certain

Reply 3

Leslie Knope

Original post by blobby2000

every time? someone suggested sometimes it can be made in passing, it just seemed interesting with all the contexts but no one seemed certain

I mean if its the same guy giving you compliments, then he could be interested in you

Reply 4

OfficialFlyn

Both honestly coming from a boy. It an mean your fit as in having a nice body, so you can be proud. Or a flirt as trying to start a convo. So really you decide

Reply 5

blobby2000

Original post by TheGirlFelonXxXx

I mean if its the same guy giving you compliments, then he could be interested in you

that's true, tbf, still waiting for that lol

Reply 6

.Iqra.

What's with the "is it just me"

Reply 7

Leslie Knope

Original post by blobby2000

that's true, tbf, still waiting for that lol

Yep but tbh even if he does give constant compliments then it could also mean that he's playing you, so you might want to keep an eye out for that

Reply 8

blobby2000

Original post by TheGirlFelonXxXx

Yep but tbh even if he does give constant compliments then it could also mean that he's playing you, so you might want to keep an eye out for that

the phrase 'you're fit' from what I know tends to be made upfront by people who aren't really into the girl but her appearance, it's a weird one!

Reply 9

Leslie Knope

Original post by blobby2000

the phrase 'you're fit' from what I know tends to be made upfront by people who aren't really into the girl but her appearance, it's a weird one!

Thing is when I get told the same thing, I dont overthink it, like to me its just a comment made from a horny guy

Reply 10

blobby2000

Original post by TheGirlFelonXxXx

Thing is when I get told the same thing, I dont overthink it, like to me its just a comment made from a horny guy

yeh, it's never struck me as a nice sort of flattery, someone suggested it was a guys way of saying they liked you

Reply 11

8472

I've said it meaning one or the other and both :h:

Reply 12

blobby2000

Original post by OfficialFlyn

Both honestly coming from a boy. It an mean your fit as in having a nice body, so you can be proud. Or a flirt as trying to start a convo. So really you decide