This post is quite long but thank you so much if u do read it
This is the email I sent my student support anonymously:
(I had a intro about myself but it gives away where i study)
Ever since I met and approached this girl 8 months ago she has been in my mind. It's killing me mentally. It's weird as I am happy etc in college but when I get home it can effect me. But, the worst is going to sleep, it's like I have a nightmare most nights before I'm even actually asleep. We never really got to know each other and she thinks I'm a creep for understandable reasons (I'm not though...). She was never interested in me but I'm finding it impossible to get her out of my head. I have met and texted girls during the 8 months but it doesn't help. Even after summer I was no different, I still couldn't get her out of my mind. She has caused me to be depressed, have suicidal thoughts (rarely though). I even at one point would go to the college grass bit (where the greenhouse is) and punch my fists into the ground to help escape the pain whilst at college. I have now even started to ask myself what the point of life is, why should I live, when I'm just gonna be numb and useless. I don't know what to do, every piece of advice I get from people online is the exact same and useless. I am using an anonymous email address as I guess I'm scared of getting help in real life and letting you guys know who I am, you also may tell my parents who I don't want to worry. Please I just want these painful nights and even days to end, I'm begging you for advice that is different from the rest, something that can really help.This is the email i got back:
Hello there and thank you for emailing student support.
It sounds like you are going through a difficult time and I would like to be able to try and offer you some support. Here in student support we offer a confidential service and therefore we do not report back to parents or teachers. The only time we would do this is if we felt you or others were in danger or harm.
It sounds like you have already tried to communicate with people online and have not found this helpful, therefore I would encourage you to make an appointment where we could perhaps explore some of your feelings.
If you still wish to remain anonymous then you could contact (anon) counselling on (phone number hidden) (N/A) and arrange to see them. They are not connected to the college and therefore you may feel are a ‘safer’ option for you.
Please contact me as I would like to arrange an appointment to see you.
This email seems fine but I'm scared that they are gonna think I or the person who has made me unstable mentally is in danger and therefore contact my parents. The only reason I want to do this is because I don't want them to make my parents or anyone else worry. I want to be 100% honest which will be extremely disturbing for them and will most likely make them contact someone else... What should I do?