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Kissed by mate while drunk - gay??

Anonymous #1

So yeah, I'm not gay or anything, it just kinda happened. I'm confused so please help me out!!

N0 U!

I've kissed guys when I'm drunk just for a laugh, I can do that without questioning my own sexuality because I know I'm straight.

Reply 3

ByronicHero

Don't worry about it. This kind of thing is very common among young people and has no meaningful impact on your life (unless your mate thinks it meant more).

Reply 4

SomeWelshGuy123

People kiss mates when drunk all the time, nothing abnormal about it.

Reply 5

rickyrossman

Depends. Was it passionate or a joke? If the former, then unfortunately...

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

Original post by ByronicHero

Don't worry about it. This kind of thing is very common among young people and has no meaningful impact on your life (unless your mate thinks it meant more).

Ah ok, good. Idk what he's thinking but I'm kinda nervous about seeing him at school tomorrow... hopefully he's just forgotten but i don't think he was that drunk...

Reply 7

littledino1011

As a lesbian, I don’t really get it when straight people do this. My advice would be to be careful. It can be quite upsetting as a gay person to kiss someone who kisses back and then says ‘no homo’. But otherwise, have fun!

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Original post by rickyrossman

Depends. Was it passionate or a joke? If the former, then unfortunately...

I hope it was a joke but i'm not sure as it was quite intense and long-ish, almost like a proper snog... have to admit i kissed him back, not sure why, it just sorta happened because i'm not gay or anything you know

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by littledino1011

oh yes i see what you mean!! i don't hope to offend anyone obviously and i don't wanna lose my friendship with him, he's quite a close mate but has never told me that he's gay or anything, although idk if people would talk about that...

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

Hi i'm back because i'm currently at school and it seems that he's avoiding me, didn't talk to me before class, hasn't joined for lunch and stuff. Maybe he's embarrassed or scared? anyway what should i do?