hi, the best thing you did was stop kissing her and letting her know that your boyfriend wouldn’t be happy, from then, she knew not to try anything else. but at the end of the day, you went out clubbing, there’s gonna be loads of people looking for some affection and hitting on you but yeah, it’s down to you to get yourself out and far away from that as you have a bf. you text him aswell, you could of carried on kissing her and lied to him or you could of stopped kissing her and not tell him but you did the right thing by telling him. i just think he needs to understand that you’re young and people are gonna find you attractive and it isn’t ur fault. from your post, it looks like your boyfriend could perhaps have relationship anxiety which makes him worry about the ‘what ifs’ and because something like that happened, he’s thinking the worst. but, this isn’t his fault as he could of been mentally abused in the past? idk. i’m the same with my partner when it comes to her going out because she’s young and obviously attractive. i think the worse about everything nearly and that’s something i’ve gotta overcome. it’s nothing to do with the trust hopefully as i trust my partner 100%. it’s my anxiety what makes me think the way i do. just give him some time to come around and speak about it with each other