Will I ever lose my virginity?

It is quite important and I’d like to lose it with the right person, but finding the “right” person is pretty unlikely and waiting because “the time will come” I doubt will work - I mean how does the “right” person come about in your life, life isn’t a magical fairytale, guys have to find women and women reject everyone who’s not a dominant confident alpha male. It’s so hard.

There’s so much pressure around this age to lose it as well

Hah pressure trust me there isn’t I’ve heard the people who talk about losing it and either they where disgusting individuals laughing like Neanderthals or they where tbh describing something that sounded sad and a rather bad way to lose it honestly your virginity ain’t something that matters your experience is a little but if you find someone who you like and likes you they won’t be arsed and might even like it

Hmm myself I’m a virgin yeah you can laugh I’m a romantic at heart I’ve had more offers from glorious whomen and even a bit worryingly men than most could boast about I’m just not that arsed either way I like the idea but I want something more and I don’t want to get stuck with a head case what is tbh inevitable as of this moment I’m 18 and I’m hoping to persue my dreams so whomen are the least of my worries or interests

If you’re really so bothered about it you could save up and hire an escort their sort of a classy prostitute you meet them show em a good time then you go to you designated spot and have the best sex you could ask for you have to pay of course but that’s for them to leave as they say

It’s a far classier and more memorable way than what most do afterall most escorts are nice whomen with a good variety of personalities and tbh their better in bed than most whomen I’m not saying this is the answer but I really wouldn’t recommend wasting your life perusing something as silly as losing your virginity no that’s a empty and stupid persuit with no reward

Persueing a life of pleasure is a more worthwhile life style but your probably not well off enough to have such a ludicrous life
So enrichment I would recommend as it will be far more worthwhile and rewarding in the short and long run

Be more assertive

True but rather basic advice

Hmm mr 18 year old in question erm where are you trying to pick up girls if at uni bad place they have lives and purpose alongside studies their not really the type you want to try and meet and f**k

try bars and clubs dance a little if you can’t dance learn how too I cannot count how many horny lasses I’ve met at clubs and most will approach you so long as you dress up and dance by dress up not fashion fashion is dull senseless following of a group dress smart and wear what you like do your hair so it’s not a mess wear after shave preferably good after shave because dancing makes you sweat

Don’t be a **** approaching every girl there if you see a girl who you like and are confident compliment them on something that you like don’t come onto them that’s what every thick confident lad does it’s not attractive

Have a beer or maybe just something fizzy up to you then dance to whatever music you feel like dancing too don’t get drunk again that goes under don’t be a **** no one likes a drunk 😵 and just be pleasant and fun it ain’t hard I myself at first couldn’t dance yet I still moved perfectly to rave and dance music

It is a attractive trait but when I dance don’t be a poser focussing on how you look that’s again a common mistake afterall there are plenty of cokes up poser ***** who focus on their image at bars and clubs but I’m nearly allways the center of attention everyone and I’m not being egotistical literally everyone love me at the clubs I go because I’m lively nice and friendly

What I normally do is tan before, get a hair cut, put on a Versace shirt with two top buttons undone, wear Versace aftershave, and Versace chain and I'm ready to go.

Seems to work on girls in the 17-21 cohort.

Go to the gym get buff and the b@tches will start flocking, trust me.

I’m really worried I’ll end up a virgin all my life. I’m 18 and I think that girls just don’t like me for some reason. I’m not the best looking but I’m a friendly guy and I’ve gone out to bars and clubbing a few times now and every time I talk to girls they just reject me and end up going for other guys who aren’t better looking than me! I’m really worried and when I start uni this year I worry that all the guys will get girls so easy like on freshers and I won’t. What do I need to do to improve my chances? Thank you so much for your help!

Hmm myself I’m a virgin yeah..

If you’re really so bothered about it you could save up and hire an escort their sort of a classy prostitute you meet them show em a good time then you go to you designated spot and have the best sex you could ask for you have to pay of course but that’s for them to leave as they say

It’s a far classier and more memorable way than what most do afterall most escorts are nice whomen with a good variety of personalities and tbh their better in bed than most whomen I’m not saying this is the answer but I really wouldn’t recommend wasting your life perusing something as silly as losing your virginity no that’s a empty and stupid persuit with no reward

Your lack of experience is showing.
Going with an escort / prostitute is one solution for the OP.

A bubble foam bath with everything or a double bubble foam bath with everything in a Bangkok parlour is a deeply pleasurable experience. But it is not "the best sex you coukl ask for".

The best sex you could ask for would include a long session or several sessions over a week-end. It would include the woman doing to you what the prostitute would do to you in Bangkok, plus one or two other things depending on your taste. Plus it would include genuine passion, love, enthusiasm, desire from the woman. Not fake pretend, paid for desire. Plus it would include giving the woman multiple orgasms including a very strong orgasm.

Sex with escorts, especially the ones in the UK, including the high class ones is of the nature that their objective is to make you orgasm for the least time and effort on their part. If they do that they feel as if they've "won". It can be deeply physically pleasurable for the man, but don't expect to give them multiple orgasms and don't expect the emotional connection that you get with a girlfriend.


Overall your comments on high class escorts are stunningly naive. It's as if you've learnt all you know about prostitutes by watching Pretty Woman. Get some real world experience and report back here if your findings differ to mine.

Hmm your talking of passionate love making as I mentioned earlier that’s not something you just pick up out of nowhere yes it’d be great for uni boy to do that but clearly he’s adamant to do it soon I earlier on in this forum discussed the whole waiting ****

My suggestion was based on the fact that I do know an escort who I have spoken with it’s cleaner and safer than getting a prostitute often you go for a meal or to a bar to simulate a date then if it goes well you **** and yes I admit it’s not the best **** in the world that does come with love but uni boy ain’t gonna just suddenly find love right now is he Krueger in the other hand escorts are fairly easy to find...