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Fat lady in denial about how bad being fat is

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Reply 20
Original post by angelike1
It's definitely unhealthy and views denying this should not be endorsed.

Though if someone is fat we should not criticise their choice.


If someone is costing society thousands/ millions pounds on healthcare because of their lifestyle choices we can criticise. Why not? If we don't criticise it will become normal and cost the UK billions more and we dont want that do we?
Reply 21
Original post by TheRuralJuror
I've had loads of parents and close ones die purely of they're way of life, too much sugar, too much smoking, too much fatness.
and I think its completely stupid to die of your own hands


'enjoy life' they say when eating bad food, but if you died early have you enjoyed life by just eating bad food? is that enjoying life?
Obesity is massive societal problem. Fat acceptance worsens that problem. People shouldn't be encouraged to feel as though obesity is acceptable. It's disgusting, a drain on public health resources, and completely avoidable. People need to be told this. Sometimes you have to look in the mirror and feel some shame.

Eat fewer calories. Exercise more. Eat a salad instead of a pizza. Walk or bike to work if it's not actually that far. Have social services take fat kids away from obviously irresponsible parents.

Contrary to popular belief, poverty does not force you to sit around eating junk food and copious amounts of fat and sugar. Ethiopians and the homeless don't exactly have an obesity problem, and when times were financially rough for me, my problem was losing too much weight - not gaining it.
Original post by angelike1
Though if someone is fat we should not criticise their choice.


Original post by TimmonaPortella
Personally I'm fine with CRUK mounting awareness campaigns, and it's clearly silly to complain about 'fat shaming' in this case. However, they lose me when they start calling for things to be banned. There are altogether too many of these groups pushing for state interference in aspects of people's lives which are really none of anyone else's business.


It is our business and we should criticise their choice if it's costing us a lot of money and putting unnecessary strain on the NHS.
Original post by AperfectBalance
When will people learn that the new left is a form of insanity


It is not what you call the new left that is the main problem. It is the majority of British people that chose to be overweight or obese.

Britain has gone from being one of the most industrious nations in the world to one of the most obese. Gluttony and idleness are now central to British culture. That it is not a source of national embarrassment and shame is a damning indictment of Britain.
Original post by howitoughttobe
It is our business and we should criticise their choice if it's costing us a lot of money and putting unnecessary strain on the NHS.


I don't really care if you criticise or not. Just don't try to control people by banning things.

Fundamentally, people don't owe you, or anyone else, a duty to keep themselves in shape. That's their concern, and the fact that they have access to a socialised healthcare system that they didn't necessarily ask for and can't opt out of is no excuse at all for coercive state interference in their lifestyles.

If you object so strongly to fat people costing the NHS money, carve out self-inflicted obesity-related illnesses from coverage. At least in that case they're still at liberty to ignore you and what you think, which is my core concern.
Original post by TimmonaPortella
I don't really care if you criticise or not. Just don't try to control people by banning things.

Fundamentally, people don't owe you, or anyone else, a duty to keep themselves in shape. That's their concern, and the fact that they have access to a socialised healthcare system that they didn't necessarily ask for and can't opt out of is no excuse at all for coercive state interference in their lifestyles.

If you object so strongly to fat people costing the NHS money, carve out self-inflicted obesity-related illnesses from coverage. At least in that case they're still at liberty to ignore you and what you think, which is my core concern.


I think that's a very good idea. And include benefits in that as well. Unfortunately I don't make those sorts of decisions so for now encouraging people to lose weight is the best option.

Out of interest, if someone was cutting themselves would you have the same opinion?
Original post by jdddd
'enjoy life' they say when eating bad food, but if you died early have you enjoyed life by just eating bad food? is that enjoying life?

so not being fat means you don't eat good food? so macdos are Michelin stared i guess
It isn’t just those two groups either. There’s the people who are proud of the fact that they can eat what they want and never put on weight. But there are still health implications.
Original post by Dandaman1
Contrary to popular belief, poverty does not force you to sit around eating junk food and copious amounts of fat and sugar. Ethiopians and the homeless don't exactly have an obesity problem, and when times were financially rough for me, my problem was losing too much weight - not gaining it.


If you're eating at McDonalds every day that's £30-40 a week. I doubt many people in poverty will be able to do that.

I'm overweight and don't see the problem with this advertising, it's my own fault because whenever I was upset my default setting was always eating **** food. Fortunately I found a way to snap out of it and i'm now (slowly) starting to do something about it. The campaigns have worked with smoking, so why not obesity. It's not abusing people for being overweight, that is wrong and wouldn't solve anything. It's pointing out things that have been factually proven as damaging to health.
Original post by CookieButter

Yes they actually have topic in gender studies programmes called "Fat Studies" and they are being funded by the tax payer. Funding which they are using on research to support the benefits of fatness...I would not be surprised if a few years from now there will be a ton of research "proving" how healthy it is for women to become fat.

Feminism is not only empowering sexism and dividing men and women but its also actively involved in promoting an unhealthier society.


"Fat studies." Good Christ, I can see it now: a room full of tattooed, nose-ringed, feminist land whales discussing how the concept of unhealthy obesity is a form of patriarchal, white supremacist, colonialist violence. Extra credits awarded for loud, obnoxious activism and pulling the fire alarm at the gym.

Diabetes, heart attacks and joint problems are just social constructs!
Reply 31
Original post by TheRuralJuror
so not being fat means you don't eat good food? so macdos are Michelin stared i guess


What the hell are you talking about??
Original post by howitoughttobe
I think that's a very good idea. And include benefits in that as well. Unfortunately I don't make those sorts of decisions so for now encouraging people to lose weight is the best option.

Out of interest, if someone was cutting themselves would you have the same opinion?


I think that, for as long as we have a socialised medical system, psychiatric illness should be treated by it. This makes dealing with people who cut themselves a bit more difficult, since clearly there will be a correlation there. In principle, though, if you have someone of sound mind who decides to cut himself, yes, I think the same applies.

Fatness, on the other hand, is generally just a matter of habit and choice rather than pathology.
Original post by TimmonaPortella
I think that, for as long as we have a socialised medical system, psychiatric illness should be treated by it. This makes dealing with people who cut themselves a bit more difficult, since clearly there will be a correlation there. In principle, though, if you have someone of sound mind who decides to cut himself, yes, I think the same applies.

Fatness, on the other hand, is generally just a matter of habit and choice rather than pathology.


Fair enough
Original post by ThomH97
n fact, given that there is clearly still ignorance about how bad obesity is, I think that further vindicates CRUK's decision to run this campaign. That people are trying to misrepresent this factual information into "Oh my god, it's fat shaming" is terrible. People may fat shame anyway, but the truth that being obese is a cause of cancer is still a truth people need to be aware of.


That's the problem, people are aware of the truth. In fact, the health risks of being obese are immensely well-known. It's sensible to come to the conclusion that these sorts of messages, e.g. 'being fat is bad', are unhelpful. In fact, the senior research fellow quoted in the BBC article you bring up suggests how these messages can contribute to a stigma that is ultimately counterproductive. We need to look at this complex matter differently and have an honest discussion about it, simply saying 'meh, this is the truth' is not good.
Original post by Dandaman1

Diabetes, heart attacks and joint problems are just social constructs!


lol...feminism = insanity.
Reply 36
Original post by Conceited
That's the problem, people are aware of the truth. In fact, the health risks of being obese are immensely well-known. It's sensible to come to the conclusion that these sorts of messages, e.g. 'being fat is bad', are unhelpful. In fact, the senior research fellow quoted in the BBC article you bring up suggests how these messages can contribute to a stigma that is ultimately counterproductive. We need to look at this complex matter differently and have an honest discussion about it, simply saying 'meh, this is the truth' is not good.


I don't think enough people are aware of the truth. We've got fat people who think "Oh, it's probably not great but I'm doing okay for now" while their health and mobility decrease gradually, we've got people like Sofie Hagen who think "Society viewing fatness as a negative thing is a thing that kills more than the cancer that you MIGHT get due to MAYBE something to do with you POSSIBLY weighing MORE than a CERTAIN weight POSSIBLY MAYBE" which is a refusal to face the consequences of being fat, through to Meghan Trainor who brags about being fat because she's "got that boom boom that all the boys chase".

Such messages are comforting to some fat people, so they end up believing them. Yes it's not good to abuse or assault someone because they're fat, but we actually have some sort of denial culture growing - hiding within the body positive ethos which should encourage long term health over appearance rather than temporary happiness over long term health.
Because it's exactly like criticising someone for smoking.

They're well aware of the consequences but choose to live that way anyway.

Unless they are open to debate/criticism I just think it's unnessecary.
Original post by jdddd
If someone is costing society thousands/ millions pounds on healthcare because of their lifestyle choices we can criticise. Why not? If we don't criticise it will become normal and cost the UK billions more and we dont want that do we?


Original post by howitoughttobe
It is our business and we should criticise their choice if it's costing us a lot of money and putting unnecessary strain on the NHS.


There's probably a lot of things you and I do that put unnecessary strain on the NHS.

None of us live the ideal healthy lifestyle where the cost to the NHS would be at a minimum. Therefore you can't objectively draw a line as to how healthy one 'should' live without some sort of criticism.
Reply 39
Original post by angelike1
There's probably a lot of things you and I do that put unnecessary strain on the NHS.

None of us live the ideal healthy lifestyle where the cost to the NHS would be at a minimum. Therefore you can't objectively draw a line as to how healthy one 'should' live without some sort of criticism.


Utterly ridiculous. Why would I put 'unnecessary' strain on the NHS? Haven't been to a Doctors or Hospital in over 3 years.

Peoples lifestyle choices make them more vulnerable to illnesses, disease and death? If an accident happens and you need a Doctor fair enough but if its a lifestyle choice thats caused it? Allow critism. You're in denial.

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