Boyfriend mad at me for a silly reason

its hard to give relationship advice to others because often you dont know the full story or if something is taken out of context or exaggerated or any important details omitted. so I usually say based on what your telling me.

so with that in mind based on what your saying here he sounds like a control freak and abusive. your allowed to have male friends anyway and if he sees any interaction you have with males at all online or offline as cheating and jumps straight into calling you a slut this sounds messed up.

based on what your saying id recommend dumping him and finding someone who treats you better.

that's extremely unhealthy for him to call you names and tell you to die over suck a small issue without giving you opportunity to explain yourself, he should have trusted you.

it's also unhealthy the way he then took control and made you swear on him and promise yourself over. this combined with the abusive language and over reacting outburst are huge red flags that he does not respect you and you should get out of this relationship as soon as possible.

he sounds like a very silly billy.

The thing is, he treats me really good but when he does this it will get really bad and I feel like Im the only one that understands him like this and I can help him kinda. He is Obsessed with me and dont take this with a pinch of salt. He says how crazy he is for me and how much he loves me and how beautiful I am blah blah and then wont stop messaging me if Im annoyed at him which makes things worse. But I feel like he just loves me too much. Should I actually dump him or can we work something out do you think?



It worries me too but I think we love each other so much and we have made plans for the future and everything and now if I tell him we're over he will not leave me. He's told me he will just be f*cking every girl if we break up, basically he will give up on love and everything else. He already calls the rest of the world disgusting and everyone is bad.

Did you add him?

Do you swear back? Very verbally abusive otherwise

It worries me too but I think we love each other so much and we have made plans for the future and everything and now if I tell him we're over he will not leave me. He's told me he will just be ****ing every girl if we break up, basically he will give up on love and everything else. He already calls the rest of the world disgusting and everyone is bad.

swearing at me a lot calling me a ****ing liar, slút, piece of sh*t, Im done with you, go to hell, just die, you disgust me and just leave me and a lot more.

I dont know if its healthy or not.

If you can't tell that this is unhealthy then you need help too.

Did you add him?

Do you swear back? Very verbally abusive otherwise

I didnt add him thats the thing, I haven't even been on my playstation in ages.
I was shocked as soon as I saw these messages from him and I tried to calm him down and after when I "swore to god" and he calmed down then I was like f*uck you and I was like I cant believe you. I would never be as extreme as he is when it comes to swearing.

It's very maniupulative the way you've described it-I'd get out of it. He'll say he will change and then actually won't. You don't want to be stuck in it. Please get out of it-nothing about your relationship sounds good, it sounds very unhealthy. Yes you may love each other-but it just sounds a bit toxic and overly manipulative.

Did you add him?

Do you swear back? Very verbally abusive otherwise

he sounds like a very silly billy.

that's extremely unhealthy for him to call you names and tell you to die over suck a small issue without giving you opportunity to explain yourself, he should have trusted you.

it's also unhealthy the way he then took control and made you swear on him and promise yourself over. this combined with the abusive language and over reacting outburst are huge red flags that he does not respect you and you should get out of this relationship as soon as possible.

I shouldve also said that we are long distance for a year and we're gonna meet in a few months. And everytime we argue he says he's basically been a "virgin" and ****ed no one for the past year because he has been waiting for me. I dont know how to take this but I feel bad when he says things like this.