Why do women want gender equality in the workplace, but not in dating?

there's that video on YouTube about a bus driver punching a woman after she repeatedly harrased him, then everyone yelled "hey she's a female man!"
she said she regrets f'in with him later in an interview smh

It is a reoccurring theme in this thread though.

Sadly a lot of guys on here seem to hate women just as much as the “men are trash” feminists hate men. Playing tennis with the blame for whatever the most topical grievances are, not actually trying to solve anything, just needing to be affirmed and agreed with.

Yeah, women are allowed to do whatever they want without consequences.

How do we solve the issue of double standards by women then? What actions should we take to show that some women have gone through this world as victims rather than culprits?

er, are we?

When was the last time you heard of a woman going to prison for falsely accusing a man of rape?

I haven’t the foggiest. Since no one is directly injured by double standards in dating then what is there to be done? Can you punish someone for being a hypocrite?

I’d chalk it down to a character flaw in that person, and move on to someone who shares the same values as you. Holding onto it and complaining about it is just building a wall around yourself and locking the bitterness in with it.

Despite the tune of this thread, women tend to hold different opinions about things and we don’t all have an agenda programmed into our brains. Process the emotion of feeling hurt by the double standard someone put on you, then pick yourself up and associate yourself with more like minded people. Unless you want to make hypocrisy illegal idk what there is to proactively do about it.

When was the last time you heard of a woman going to prison for falsely accusing a man of rape?

I'm not sure how that's relevant.

But a quick look on Google suggests it happens.

Fair, but the issue is that sometimes it is difficult.

A man meets a woman with a “character flaw”, she messes him up. When he realises, he moves on to another woman, who messes him up as well. By the time he reaches the “right” one, he has been psychologically and emotionally wrecked that he is unable to truly love the right one.

It's relevant if we're talking about women being allowed to do anything without consequences; which we are, incidentally.



I beg to differ.

Maybe he should take the hint it's something he's doing, rather than something the women are doing?

Fair, but the issue is that sometimes it is difficult.

A man meets a woman with a “character flaw”, she messes him up. When he realises, he moves on to another woman, who messes him up as well. By the time he reaches the “right” one, he has been psychologically and emotionally wrecked that he is unable to truly love the right one.

It is no wonder, young cheerful men turn out to be heartless bast.ards when they grow up. They have been destroyed by several women over the years that they have nothing else to give.

What? He is doing something by meeting some horrible women? I guess it is the man’s fault then.

I'm sorry but women shouldn't be lifting heavy things if there's men around to do it. We aren't built the same way.

But we don't know that. Maybe he should start standing up for himself instead of letting them walk all over him...

But we don't know that. Maybe he should start standing up for himself instead of letting them walk all over him...

- ask the woman out and face possible rejection (women might give subtle hints, but under no circumstances will they ask the man out - that is "his job"
- pay for the first date (and possible subsequent dates as well)
- propose to the woman
- treat her with meals/gifts
- hold open the door for her
- give up his coat if she's cold, so he can freeze (but never the other way around)
- put the majority of effort into sex (this is centered around pleasing the woman - the man's enjoyment is always assumed)
- be manly and dominant, never show any weak emotions, keep his problems bottled up because otherwise it's "unmanly"
- household chores must now be shared. Women no longer have to do all the cooking and cleaning, it's shared equally between men, because otherwise it's gender discrimination/oppression. Despite the fact men are still seen as the primary breadwinner in the household and a man without a job is a virtual disaster.

No we aren't built the same way, but neither of us are built to lift heavy things. Humans are one of the weakest species out there.

It’s much kinder to the ego to blame women for their lack of romantic success, than to reflect on themselves and see that the reason they can’t get laid is how they treat people/lack of social skills/ anything other than a conspiracy that women have impossible standards.

You're just a brainless princess who insists on abusing their gender, stay single forever