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Should I out her on facebook?

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Reply 20
Original post by Forestieri
I feel I have my self-respect and justice to gain.


No you don't. You have nothing to gain from this, but you sure will lose a lot. If you post it, you'll be the bad guy and you'll lose the respect of your peers. You are a victim yes, however if you expose her, you will be the bad guy and that will frustrate you even more that people won't be seeing the injustice against you, only your rash action to expose her. Just cut her out and move on, man.
Original post by sn0per
No you don't. You have nothing to gain from this, but you sure will lose a lot. If you post it, you'll be the bad guy and you'll lose the respect of your peers. You are a victim yes, however if you expose her, you will be the bad guy and that will frustrate you even more that people won't be seeing the injustice against you, only your rash action to expose her. Just cut her out and move on, man.


How on earth would anyone see him as the bad guy?
Original post by D3LLI5
He has evidence so it’s not libel. A single post is not harassment. Exposing the truth is not abuse.


Rubbish.

A single post can be reposted a million times. All it takes is one to start the avalanche.
Original post by uberteknik
Rubbish.

A single post can be reposted a million times. All it takes is one to start the avalanche.


Holding him responsible for harassment that stems from people knowing the truth about her is absurd
Reply 24
Original post by sn0per
No you don't. You have nothing to gain from this, but you sure will lose a lot. If you post it, you'll be the bad guy and you'll lose the respect of your peers. You are a victim yes, however if you expose her, you will be the bad guy and that will frustrate you even more that people won't be seeing the injustice against you, only your rash action to expose her. Just cut her out and move on, man.


Right...She had sex with strangers for money in our bed whilst I was out, decieved me, lied to me and put me at risk of STI's for over 2 years, before abandoning me to take prostitution full time, and then treat me like i'm nothinf other than to call me up with her prostitute friends to laugh at me, but I am the bad guy because I then tell people the truth. I don't really in what world I would be seen as the bad guy.
Original post by D3LLI5
Holding him responsible for harassment that stems from people knowing the truth about her is absurd


OP doesn' want to just out her, he seems vindictive to the point it destroys her. What she did is unforgivable but the punishment doesn' fit the crime as it were. I wouldn't trust OP on how far they'd take this campaign.
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Reply 27
Original post by 999tigger
Stop behaving like a child.
You are coming across as a nasty piece of work.

GROW UP.

Last month then inquest for Emma Mathews took place and she hanged herself after the sort of vindictive revenge outing you are suggesting. Is that what you want? No wonder she wont talk to you because what would be the point?

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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5390271/Woman-hanged-accused-escort.html
Your OP is contemptible.


Lol you are a moron. I'm a nasty piece of work?? Consider everything she has done to me for one ****ing moment. Right now I couldn't give two shits about how she might feel...because she has sold me out and destroyed me for dirty money. Where was her thought for me when she had the postman in our bed, where was her thought for me when was sucking bare cocks and putting my health at risk, where was her thought for me when she sold me out and ditched me without any reason just so she could go and whore herself to the dirty perverts who use such services.
Reply 28
Original post by uberteknik
Rubbish.

A single post can be reposted a million times. All it takes is one to start the avalanche.


But the information that I would be sharing is already in the public domain. Her profile and everything she does is accessible to anybody... I would be merely giving her an advertisement boost.
Original post by Guru Jason
OP doesn' want to just out her, he seems vindictive to the point it destroys her. What she did is unforgivable but the punishment doesn' fit the crime as it were. I wouldn't trust OP on how far they'd take this campaign.


The question here is about exposing her, which is a good idea. Anything more and we can have a discussion about that but it seems like you’re just appealing to a slippery slope fallacy
Original post by Forestieri
No, my mind is not made up otherwise that share button would already be hit. I have a huge urge to do it but need to know what the repurcussions on myself would be.


Repurcussions would include you being seen in a (very) bad light and whatever she does to retaliate. Just try to move on, this is a bit petty and there's no good that could come of this
Reply 31
Original post by Guru Jason
OP doesn' want to just out her, he seems vindictive to the point it destroys her. What she did is unforgivable but the punishment doesn' fit the crime as it were. I wouldn't trust OP on how far they'd take this campaign.


No, i don't want to destroy her. Just one post, sharing her true self and what she did to me so that I can at least salvage some dignity after having hundreds of dirty local men shag my partner in my bed. I think that is fair enough.
Original post by Forestieri
Lol you are a moron. I'm a nasty piece of work?? Consider everything she has done to me for one ****ing moment. Right now I couldn't give two shits about how she might feel...because she has sold me out and destroyed me for dirty money. Where was her thought for me when she had the postman in our bed, where was her thought for me when was sucking bare cocks and putting my health at risk, where was her thought for me when she sold me out and ditched me without any reason just so she could go and whore herself to the dirty perverts who use such services.


This right here is why in law, the victim doesn't choose the punishment. Your judgement is too clouded for you to make a rational decision.
Original post by Forestieri
Getting some impartial advice on the matter could sway my decision.


Aka

I'll shout at and abuse anyone who dares disagree with me
Original post by Forestieri
the information that I would be sharing is already in the public domain.


No it isn't. I suspect many of your friends and acquaintances are not yet aware of how vengeful and untrustworthy you are.
Original post by Forestieri
No, i don't want to destroy her. Just one post, sharing her true self and what she did to me so that I can at least salvage some dignity after having hundreds of dirty local men shag my partner in my bed. I think that is fair enough.


You want the best revenge advice? Move on and find a partner who truly loves you. Have a happy life with them. Let the woman who cheated on you look back at you in 20 years time and see how happy you now are and the regret she feels will be greater than anything you can do now.
You're understandably angry and hurt and you think that doing this will make you feel better, but seriously - don't. It has the potential to backfire on you massively.
Reply 37
Original post by Drewski
Aka


Drewski I don't recall shouting or abusing anybody for simply telling me not to. Plenty of people have argued against it and I respect their opinion and am considering their view. Some people have attacked me im an absurd way so of course I will stand in.
Malicious, petty revenge.
What happened to you was horrible, but two wrongs don’t make a right. She ruined what you saw as a good relationship, this could ruin her life. All this can harm for you is your past, posting something like you plan to can ruin her future. Not justified at all, if you post it then I hope you can live with the consequences.
Reply 39
Only one way to settle this. Poll is now open.

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