do i stand a chance.

What's holding you back..

lack of confidence and fear on rejection

What's holding you back..

Fair point. But carpe diem.

okay this seems really awkward to ask but since i'm such a shy person i don't really have the confidence to ask.

so there's this girl, i've known her for about a month now and our personalities just clicked. we share music all the time, and we love the same artists, and we've both shared really personal things which was a bit awkward for me but i really enjoyed getting to know her, she's always trying to call me and get me to go to concerts with her, and she's genuinely a beautiful girl like i believe she's way out of my league which makes me pretty sad but i know she's a really nice person, she isn't judgemental but i'm afraid ill mess something up. we love the same shows, we both have anxiety but mine is a little worse, she's really popular and i just don't know why she's shown so much interest.

in addition, she calls my instagram photos really cute and she said i was super attractive, we talk like we're more than friends, she always adds kisses to the end of her texts and i'm just bad at understanding peoples feelings. i dont wanna have the wrong end of the stick but i know for a fact i'm a really genuine guy, i'm not a ****boy too shy for that lol. i think i love her. i think about her so much and stay up and talk at night until stupid times like 4am.

do you think i have a chance of being in a relationship with her? she's showing alot of interest and i really hope someone can help me out

okay this seems really awkward to ask but since i'm such a shy person i don't really have the confidence to ask.

so there's this girl, i've known her for about a month now and our personalities just clicked. we share music all the time, and we love the same artists, and we've both shared really personal things which was a bit awkward for me but i really enjoyed getting to know her, she's always trying to call me and get me to go to concerts with her, and she's genuinely a beautiful girl like i believe she's way out of my league which makes me pretty sad but i know she's a really nice person, she isn't judgemental but i'm afraid ill mess something up. we love the same shows, we both have anxiety but mine is a little worse, she's really popular and i just don't know why she's shown so much interest.

in addition, she calls my instagram photos really cute and she said i was super attractive, we talk like we're more than friends, she always adds kisses to the end of her texts and i'm just bad at understanding peoples feelings. i dont wanna have the wrong end of the stick but i know for a fact i'm a really genuine guy, i'm not a ****boy too shy for that lol. i think i love her. i think about her so much and stay up and talk at night until stupid times like 4am.

do you think i have a chance of being in a relationship with her? she's showing alot of interest and i really hope someone can help me out

I’ve never had a girl ask me to cuddle her who wasn’t either interested in me sexually or was already my girlfriend, is this what the kids do these days?

I want to say sounds like she’s interested but no doubt some fruit loop will come on and tell me she cuddles all her male friends all the time and there’s nothing sexual about it so f*** it good luck pal.

we dont have a sexual relationship or anything, she said it was cold and she wanted a hug lol there was no sexual tension but i dunno if there was any intention behind it, but cheers mate appreciate it also she's 18 so i don't really know what kids do aha

The hug was probably a good opportunity to test the waters a bit to see if she wanted more, like I said I’ve never known a girl ask me for a cuddle who didn’t have romantic intentions but without proper context I could never say for definite in your case obviously.

Part of me thinks the ‘cold’ reason was just an excuse to get you close to her and it was her way of making the first move hoping you’d do the rest. Is she very touchy feely with other people?